will you tell a person who hurt you frankly about how you feel.....

@maryannemax (12173)
Sweden
December 11, 2006 6:50am CST
will you tell a person who hurt you frankly about how you feel towards what he/she has done to you? or you just try and keep everything inside... being scared that you might hurt him/her,too? i always tell the person straight if i do feel bad about what he/she has done to me. it's better to be frank i think.
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21 Feb 07
I agree with you that it is better to tell them how you feel as it will stop that hate building up inside you. However its not something I really do, I think I'm too worried that they might say something even worse in response.
@maryannemax (12173)
• Sweden
21 Feb 07
actually, i do think of that sometimes, too. i think that it's better to keep everything inside so as not to hurt other people. but i realize that i will hurt myself more. so, it's better to say things straight to that person and be honest atleast.
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
I'm not a type of a plastic person so I always tell to a person who hurt me that I really hate him/her or I feel angry on him/her but not in over acting reaction. I just tell it to them in a nice way. I want a frank person because they can tell me if there is something wrong on me instead of hiding what you feel about me. I also think that true friends is the one that is telling frankly to us if they see something wrong about us.