how u react after a BREAK UP??

@sexyffff (134)
India
December 11, 2006 7:12am CST
how u react after a BREAK UP?? i often wonder how i would react if i had 2 hear frm da person i love 'ITS OVER"..... mmm u tell me how wud U react???? did you ever break up? My philo. is 'when u part u part with a smile' Not only that u move away with complete truth n honesty..if the other person likes another one then be honest and then move out. But easier said than done...more often than not we just resort to lies and leave a sour impressions in the memory lane. Nyways, I hope u don't hav to hear that but in case u do...assess (realistically) whther u guys can patch ot not...if not...forget ASAP and join dievert ur energies/ attention into somethin constructive! Good luck! well always keep in mind one thing"Everything is part of life not heart of life"..so if somebody have any kind of break up wid frnds or partner.so no need to frown or no need to think so much about it...and also today's philosphy is "move on in life no matter wt".....and last but not the least " people and things dont upset us rather we upset by beleiving that they can upset us"...take it as experince and move on.and think positive like wtever happen happen for gud:)..Tc Very very well said!!!- Dil par mat le yarr. Its also about how quickly you kinda divert ur focus rather than stickin to the unfavourable. well when u break up . go to the market purchase a fevicol & apply in the affected portion!!!thats it! well.. breakups happen for many reason... but in the end it comes down to the fact that either of the partner thinks that they'll be happier without the relation. I know its a hard thing... but if you truly love someone, wouldnt this sacrifice be worth it? i mean if i ever realised that i was no longer a part of my lover's happiness and was more of an obstruction, i'd be much rather remove myself from her way and let her be happy. Thats what matters for me.. her happiness.. i'll always love her... if she ever comes back to me, i'll accept her... so dear, til then.. turn to other things in life for that happiness... and hope that the one you loved will be happy.. and one day, he/she might come back.. or better still, you will find someone who truly cherishes you and loves you. Life works like that... its always a dawn after the darkness. . well i ve nvr gone thru it.bt hd it been so wel i vd ve simply carried on wid my life,an wished good luck 2 him.dats it an den search 4 sm1 else Kisi ke pyar me gehri chot khayi hai, wafa se pehle hi bewafai payi hai, log dua mangte hai is haal me marne ki, par humne usiki yaadon me jeene ki kasam khayi hai........... Live your life...... believe in the dialogue of movie "ISHQ"Bus, Train & G**l, ek jati hai toh dusri aa hin jati hai. So, Wait for the other ........... till then take it COOL & Njoy
3 responses
@platypus (334)
• Italy
11 Dec 06
these are difficult situations, but everyone experienced them. the only thing to do (easier said than done, as you said) is going on with your life. to me, everyone is welcome, noone is essential.
@sexyffff (134)
• India
11 Dec 06
i will just try to do the things u have told me .
@demos4582 (390)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 06
i will simply find another person to ask me do he loves me
@sexyffff (134)
• India
11 Dec 06
i think its not tht easy . as u r writting here
• India
11 Dec 06
I HAVE ALSO GONE THROUGH THIS CONDITION BUT YOU HAVE TO CONCENTRATE ON YOURSELF.IT IS DIFFICULT BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT. NEVER TAKE ANYTHING GRANTED IN THIS WORLD ,MY DEAR FRIEND,YOU WILL FACE GRIEF IF YOU DO. SO JUST FORGAT EVERY THING AND DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO YOU WILL FEEL MORE HAPPIER THAN BEFORE AS I AM FEELING.