scared of looking at dead people inside a coffin

I guess you will in time. The loss of your brother must have hit you very hard. I lost my grandson, when he was seven years of age, and just two days after Christmas. I couldn't handle going to see him after he had passed on... I just wanted to remember the good times I spent with him in my life. I miss him so very much, but in time, you will be able to accept things, I'm sure. Take care... bless you, and be strong. x

I'm not sure what to say about your dreams. I do look at others in the coffin. I haven't seen myself there yet. It is just a body. It is a sober, but good reminder to all of us that our life on earth is temporary. After that we face the judgment and either go to heaven or hell. Have a wonderful day.

This is just something you need to work on. It's not a horrible thing that you don't look in caskets. Some people would rather have their last memory of their loved one alive. If this really bothers you might want to see a therapist or something.

You may never get over the fear of looking in a coffin again. I think seeing your bother pass away really hit you hard and left a spot in you that might never change. Perhaps try to not think about it so much. Maybe constant thinking is causing you more fear.