I have a co housemates who just arrived and just new on the house

Philippines
December 14, 2006 5:51am CST
I have a housemates who just arrived and just new on the house at first she is really good to me because our other housmates treated her rude so she always talk to me and then later she always want to cheat me like for example in distribution of our food she always contribute less that because she and I are the one going to the grocery.One of our housmates noticed it that person contribute less because she ask me and she wants to give her some penalties for that. She is angry because I told them that she is contributing less and start to tell lies agains me. How can I treat that kind of person.
3 responses
@yorb24 (2181)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Her contributing less to the household is knowledge that the other housemates should be aware of. Not just you. I would just continue to tell the truth to the other housemates and hopefully if she is new and they've known you awhile, they'll know who to trust more.
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
Yes you are right but I'm not closed with all the housemates and some of them have the same attitude as her and they believed on her lies.
@ChewySpree (1834)
• United States
14 Dec 06
If she is not contributing her even share to the household, I think the only fair thing to do would be for all the rest of you to ask her to either contribute her share or find another place to live. It's not fair to the rest of you if she does not pull her own weight.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 06
Yes you are right we already ask her to go but some of our house mates believe on her lies against me.
@nishanity (1652)
• India
14 Dec 06
be rude to her too.. u know ur othr roomys more than u know this gal rite?? so turn them against her :) or u cud just get to talk to her politely and solve it
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• Philippines
20 Dec 06
As far as I can control my self I dont want to be rude.