How do you handle unkindness that is done to you by family

I feel sorry for you man, blood is thicker than water though. I hope things work out for you. Keep on loving them and pray for them.

Just believe in yourself and if ever,Prove yourself that youre worthy to the family.Show love to them and whoever you meet in the family.Be kind to them even they are not.Be yourself and be honest in all your dealings,all will come smoothly. Cheers! Be happy and Enjoy!

If they couldn't keep her in line either than that's a bit hypocritical is it not? it seems they've made you the scapegoat and I think it's awful the way they're treating you, if anything it should be YOU that's mad at them!

If i remember correctly, you said before that they could not help her either, so I hope you do not feel badly about that. It is Christmas, find someone who appreciates your generosity, participate in community services for the needy and lonely. Family is more than blood ties. It is ties of caring as well.

You should ask god to forgive you first and them pray for your family and your niece.You did what you could for her and that's all you can do.And as for your family they will come around and soon realize that you did the right thing.

How sad to feel abandoned by your loved ones, especially at this time of year. My question is how can they treat you so harshly when they did not step up to help your niece themselves?

i dont speak to my family anymore sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do

i'll beat everyone in the family with a stick and cry alone in my room

dont take things too seriously, it will pass away in a few days. at the same time you can try and explain your situation and make tehm realize that you have done a fair job. try to discuss things on a lighter note to avoid the problem from escalating further.

My sentiments are with you. Keep praying and dont loose hope. Time heal all wounds.

sad to hear you family behaviour with you.

i think one should think intellectualy rather than emotionaly. the fault is with your family members not with you. you mustnt care to hear them. if u r doing right it doesnt matters who tell you nething.

i feel Sorry you are going through all of this. It sounds like they are just feeling guilty because they don't want to or can't deal with her. Rather than face that, they blame you. I said a prayer for you. God will watch over you and the situation. He takes care of his children.

I do not feel anyone's family members would ever think bad of him/her. Talk to them and find out what's the problem.

why should you be the one responsible for your niece's needs at the first place? and if so, atleast, they should be grateful that you do take care of your niece even she's hard headed. you also have a life to live and you deserve to do what it is that you wanna do without carrying so much niece's responsibilities. talk to your family about your problem. make them understand. and if they really can't understand your feelings, then make them understand more. they will understand you sometime in life. but i hope not too late though. good luck.

You see the problem is not that others are not satisfied with what you did for your niece, it looks like to me so aren't you. You are trying to get appreciation and approval from others for the kindness you have shown. Answer it your self. Have you done enough?

if they are not caring for you let them do whatever they are doing and dont meet them becuse you will get hapiness from other rather then spending time with you family members and not getting any thing in return, you should build relationship with others they will be more help full.

You can get through it. Have ever heard that : You can't choose your relatives thank god we can choose our friends. I think not all family are great, even some family could break down for money or something.

i pray you kindness to be done with your family

i just want to let you know that i will be praying for me