How to succeed at the most importnt job of all!!!

children - enjoy having a child
Philippines
December 15, 2006 12:36am CST
No parent wants to miss seeing their baby takes her first step or say her first word. But giving up work temporarily to become at stay-at-home parent can put a big strain on your marriage and family finances. Here are some suggestions to make it work. Network - get out and meet other stay-at-home parents and don't be shy about discussing your problems and concerns with them. Don't forget yourself - Taking care of children is demanding work. Be sure to block out time to do something you enjoy away from the kids. Brush up on your skills - Parenting doesn't necessarily come naturally. Take parenting classes or read up on the subject. Don't forget your spouse - Make time to be alone with your partner and keep your marriage strong. The working parent can help by taking care of the children and doing housework whenever possible. When it's time to go back to work, prepare your child for the transition. New childcare arrangements can be strssful to children. And be prepared for an emotional transition yourself. Talk to your colleagues at work about your children when you miss them, and be sure to bring a photo of them to your workspace.
5 responses
@anup12 (4177)
• India
16 Dec 06
It depends on the approach which u take and the decisions u take
• United States
16 Dec 06
i think for MOM to take care of kids is to stay at home,full time if necessary To breed up healthy kids ,mentally and physically needs full time
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
16 Dec 06
Thanks for the advice. I have a seven month old son, my first child and I would do anything for him. I went to one mothers group class but they were all much older than I was and I felt I couldnt relate as I was much younger than them and their children were much younger than mine... My partner and I are constantly struggling to keep it together but at the end of the day we love each other so we work through it. Ive started an at home business just recently so as to not miss out on seeing my child grow up, but still manage to maintain minimal financial contibution to the household to help alleviate some of the pressure and stress off my partner :D
@Khangura (924)
• Canada
16 Dec 06
good advice im only 18 and in 5 years i might have a family of my own so ill try keep your points in mind, there good. I can tell you are/would be a great parent. Of course id probably have my wife taking care of the child and work myself but i still wouldnt want to miss her first step/word.. The downside is you dont kno when its going to happen :(
@senseico (23)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
Loving your family - children need to have a happy childhood
It's so difficult to raise a family because you have an obligation with your kids and your spouse too. For a father like me, I see to it I have a balance between work and family time. I don't want to miss my daughter perform in school activities I would take a leave from my work just to watch her. I did not allow my wife to work because I want her to take care of our child and let her discipline our daughter for her to become a good individual someday. It is the greatest achievement a parent could get.