Nursing a 8 week old baby

United States
December 15, 2006 3:28pm CST
I have an eight week old son that is nursing. He gets 2 oz supplemented formula a day during his fussy time. However, I cant get him to stay awake long enough sometimes to eat a full amount. Any suggestions or ideas? When he does not nurse fully, he wakes up quicker and wants to suckle again.
3 responses
• United States
19 Dec 06
When my son was an infant, he would fall asleep as soon as he latched on. I would have him totally undressed and tickling him and still . . . zonked out! What worked for us was a compromise: I had to eventually pump and give milk to him from a bottle. For some reason he fed better when we used the bottle. You may feel like you are feeding and nursing all the time for shorter periods, but that's pretty typical given his age. You'll see an improvement at around 3-4 months.
• United States
19 Dec 06
Thanks for the response! My son also seems to eat more from a bottle, but I can not pump enough for some reason. I had the same problem with my older son when he nursed. I have tried all of the pumps except that new Avent IQ-which is like 300 dollars so I wont be trying. I think its just me. He is doing better and I am sure will continue to do better as he gets older, too.
• United States
20 Dec 06
I found that if I pumped on one side while my kiddo(s) nursed on the other, more milk came out. You might try that.. I used to tickle my kiddos also, and undress them almost completely to make the air stimulate them and keep them awake. It didn't work very much. I think it's better to let them eat what they want, and then sleep. They'll get the hang of it eventually and eat for longer periods of time.. and sleep for longer periods, too!
• United States
21 Dec 06
Ah yes - I felt like I wasn't pumping enough too. I asked my midwife, and she assured me that you just don't get as much from a pump. You're just not stimulated the same way. I'm still nursing my daughter (17 months) and there are times when I can just look at her and the milk will flow! But looking at a pump does zilch for me :-) I agree that you will probably get more if you pump on one side and nurse on the other. AND REMEMBER!! The more often you nurse, the more milk you produce. Supply and demand . . . And don't be afraid to talk to midwife, doctor, pediatrician, lactation consultant.
• United States
20 Dec 06
my 3 month old daughter still does this, I just poke her or tickle her. But I do notice that she will fall asleep still latched on and even in her sleep she suckles and I can hear her swallowing so she is still eating it just takes longer and it less frequent swallowing cause she is suckling slower but there is a chance that your son is doing the same thing just turn off any noise around and listen while he is sleeping to see if you hear him swallowing if so then I wouldn't worry about it too much. If he isn't doing that then I still wouldn't worry too much cause when he is hungry he will definatly let you know and he will stay awake long enough to get full =o) I use to think that my daughter wasn't eating enough then I was reminded that my daughter has a very tiny stomach. If you are very worried about it try calling your Pedi and see if they will give you a number for a Lactacian Consultent they would be able to help you out and give you some ideas or possibly help you figure out a new position to hold him so that he is comfy but not comfy enough to fall asleep. Or you could try going to a local La Leche Leage meeting they are very helpful too. Good luck with your feeding. If you have any questions feel free to email me at Kittygirl4230@gmail.com
• United States
21 Dec 06
Thank you! He is swallowing just fine, and maybe its just me thinking he is not eating enough. I guess he would let me know if he wanted to eat more. Its tough being a mommy!! :)
@medako (33)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Like has been said, it's very common for babies to fall asleep while eating. They become relaxed and in a safe, warm environment. For the first few weeks/months it's pretty common to feed on demand, even if it's every hour or two. They'll eventually regulate and form a schedule of their own. As for keeping a baby awake, try running your fingers down their spine gently, but with some pressure. This will help stimulate.