Is it ok for a GIRL to ask a GUY out on a DATE?

@shaj_me (149)
Philippines
December 16, 2006 10:31pm CST
Nowadays, women can change flat tire, run a company, and still have time for for themselves...is it okay if women throw chivalry aside and ask a guy out?
5 responses
@minidak03 (174)
• Canada
17 Dec 06
What I wouldnt love more is if a women was ever to ask me out, I've never had a women ask me out before, I've always had to make the first move, but I personally think it would be extreamlly attractive if more women would take the first steps and ask out the guy. Now that makes me sound kind of like I'm afraid to ask a girl out, this is not true, however I do find it hard to just walk up to a good looking girl that I've never met before and start up a conversation, usually I need some sort of aspect to happen for me to start up a conversation with a random girl but surprizingly the oppurtunity presents itself a heck of a lot so its not that hard. But yeah your write women change flat tires (Actually last year I was broken down on the highway with a flat tire and be being the dumb guy not bringing a jack with me on a road trip, a good looking women stopped and said she would change it for me.....I just laughed and said no I couldnt ask you to do that nor could I just stand here and watch you do that, but if I could use your jack for a minute I'd be ever so greatful), and they can run a company and do things just as good (Most of the time better) then a man can. Then yes they do have all the power in the world to ask a guy out and I think a heck of a lot of guys would love that plus I think it would be one of the greatest confidence boosters a guy could get.
@shaj_me (149)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
thanks for opening up!....from your story, you seem to be a nice person and i believe a girl wouldnt think twice to initiate a first move on you coz she'll know she wont be rejected with some kind of insult coz you seem to be a nice person at the first place.. keep it up!! =)
• Canada
17 Dec 06
Well thank you! :)
• United States
17 Dec 06
I think that is absolutely alrite..As a matter of fact, girls are more talkative than boys. There are many guys that are shy.
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@shaj_me (149)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
tnx for sharing your thoughts.. =)
@hsvgrl86 (194)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
i think its okay these days for women to ask a guy out on a date, traditions are changing, these day woman are proposing to men and also men don't always ask the fathers permission to marry their daughter things are changing.
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@shaj_me (149)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
ohh is that so? u got point in there.. hmnn, if u were to ask me...it's a sign of respect when a guy ask permission to my father when he wants to marry me. it adds more to me.
@lauriefnp (5112)
• United States
17 Dec 06
There's nothing wrong with it at all. Of course, you could end up paying for the date... I think men appreciate and enjoy being pursued sometimes. It takes the pressure off of them, and they don't have to be the ones worrying about being rejected.
@shaj_me (149)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
nice....but what if lets say you initiate the first move..but the guy rejected you..how will you react on an instant on that very moment?
• United States
17 Dec 06
Yes! If I didn't ask out my husband we never would have gotten this far.
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@shaj_me (149)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
nice move you've done girl! =)