Is it possible to love a female that only knows (how to play the game)

United States
December 20, 2006 9:01am CST
Is it possible to love a female that only knows (how to play the game) if you don't know what that means it's the cheating life u lie to them they lie to u so on and so forth.I believe that the people you meet influence how u act with people so if u only know or have only been with people who lie and cheat then that through u with make u act that way.I believe that if the right person comes along they will want to settle down knowing that they have a good thing but sometimes it's not enough or there not ready to settle down?And if that's so then when will they be ready when there 35 or so...Or will they know a good thing when u see it???Of course u will question it having been lied to so many times...But when and if they pass the test and I'm sure there will be test! Will u then treat them right or do them wrong like u have been done so many times over???I don't kniow let me know what you think!!!!! Also I have to asks to you believe knowing to much about a person a good thing or a bad thing???I happen to believe it is a good thing no matter what cause no can of worms or anything can come back to haunt up you have no worry if a person knows u and still wants to be with u through all that it says something about that perosn aleast to me it does!!!But let me know what you think!!!!
4 responses
@anup12 (4177)
• India
20 Dec 06
Yes it is possible and hey a big welcome to you on myLot and hope u continue to post great discussions adn wishing u all the best
1 person likes this
20 Dec 06
reminds me of a girl i used to know, i loved her and she hurt me :( dont get involved, nothing but pain!
• United States
20 Dec 06
Please don't discourage others (or yourself) just because you had a bad experience. It usually takes many bad experiences before you find that good one (on that note, don't get too caught up on the bad ones, or you might miss the good ones).
• United States
21 Dec 06
WE all make mistakes. The problem is do you learn from your mistake. If you two are going to keep playing the game of "an eye for an eye" then it's a relationship that ruined from the start. They do say that you are the company that you keep, but that's up to you to be a leader or a follower. Just because you hang around someone that is lying and scheaming doesn't mean that you have to do that. When someone is ready to settle down and be with the person that they love they will know. A key to a good relationship is work from both parts, open communication, and spontaneity.
• United States
20 Dec 06
I believe in being completely open with my partner, and I prefer the same from her. Also, you don't have to become like those you associate with, set an example - even if it is your significant other.