How Do You Forgive Someone Who Has Hurt You So Bad?!

@jdduffer (129)
United States
September 26, 2006 7:28am CST
How do I forgive someone (my mother) who did something so awful that almost tore my family apart. She is my mother and I will always love her but I don't trust her. It is killing me that I haven't seen or spoken to my mother in 4 months, but the truth is that I don't trust her . . . Can anyone relate?!
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• United States
30 Sep 06
I would love to know the answer to this one. I just found out some stuff that my first love did to me with the girl he is with now. His girlfriend was the one who told me that she hooked up with him while I was with him. I get more and more mad the more I think about it. I know I will never forgive him or her for it. She acts like she never did anything wrong even though she knew about me being with him. Oh well, she was stupid and had a kid by him and now he leaves her home all the time when he isnt working, to go do what he wants.
• United States
28 Sep 06
I can relate to your mother. My other half don't trust me and it's killing me that he don't. I've hurt him nad lied to him. I'm ashamed but were working things out. But again I can relate you you because now I don't trust my mother...
• United States
28 Sep 06
I don't know how to answer this. Your mother brought you in this world. I can only thing of a few things. Thant my mother would get this treatment for. And I know she would never do any of them. Sleep wiith my boyfriend. steal money from my bank acct. beat my daughter. rob a bank and go to prison.
@JNKnaub (135)
• United States
27 Sep 06
Well its your mom so your expected to forgive her mabey not trust her but you have to forgive her shes family.You wouldnt evan be here if it wasnt for her.Yea she messed up its human nature.And let me tell you Iv had many and I mean many family members that have done said or done messed up things.