my friends

i jsut have 3-4 best friends. if friends i have many lol.

Meet a lot of people they be friended me founded out they just need something from me... i only have a few, i choose them nowadays... hard to find...

1. If they are friends through internet, doesnot matter. You can have all of them. If they are local friends, or friends staying at short distance where you meet them face to face, talk to them regularly. The best way to test a friend's genuine concern is to create a dummy problem - I told my aunt is hospitalized and I was someone to sleep in the hospital to give company in the night. Most of them gave one execuse or the other. Another time, I told I have a huge debt to repay. I did not even ask the money, 50% of them did not even ask why the debts were created, what problems I am going to face, how it can be solved. A genuine friend, if he cannot help me with money, would at least discuss. Again I asked them to lend a digital camera for couple of days. Many of them said their cameras are non-functioning (though I know it is functional). Itis easily made out that in all the above instances, the so called friends (they need not help - but they could sympathise or help find solution) just withered away except a few. These few are my genuine friends and the rest crowd.

I consider only those who are truthful.you too can be my friend if you talk truth with me.

I have about 5 girls that I truly can consider a friend. The rest to me are just acquantances.