old men

@jal1948 (1360)
India
December 28, 2006 11:57pm CST
Why do young girls go about with old men sometimes more than twice their age and fit to be their father age and sometimes also marry such men. Is it solely for money, or there are other considerations,Is it correct to do so,what is your opinion
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6 responses
• United States
31 Jan 07
I think in the majority of cases it's about the money. In other cases, its purely love! You knows for sure.
@jal1948 (1360)
• India
26 Feb 08
you are absolutely right and in your case although you never mentioned the age difference between you and your hubby i have to seriously consider your post as you have gained five lovely kids over the period of 24 years of blissful experience.good luck happy parenting.Why pay when you have been getting it for free
@neilf49 (810)
22 Jan 07
This is a question I've asked myself in the past, until a couple of years ago when I first met my wife. She's not in it for the money, I have very little, we grew to love each other very deeply and can't bear to be apart for longer than my time at work. I'm 49 and my wife is 26, wow what an age gap, but she makes me feel much, much younger.
@jal1948 (1360)
• India
26 Feb 08
you have offered her something no amount of money can buy, you are a very rich man but dont know it,she has seen the riches in you and fallen for you hook line and sinker. YOU HAVE GIVEN HER GENUINE TRUE LOVE. May you both remain healthy and build up riches in other areas of your life.
@Goranimal (315)
• United States
29 Dec 06
ive dated girls that were 15 years younger then me and most want a stable relationship, wanting a man who will actulely oat attention to them and not want to party with there friends 24x7
@jal1948 (1360)
• India
25 Feb 08
you say you have dated girls? that means more than one girl. If they were looking for stability from an elderly man. why did you not give her stability by dating only one young girl fifteen years your junior.
• United States
29 Dec 06
Many are looking for Daddy figures or money
@jal1948 (1360)
• India
25 Feb 08
money makes the mare go round.
@nickventere (1424)
• Zambia
29 Dec 06
I think it is the sense of security that engulfs the young lady. With all the male peers not being sincere, she seeks the "fatherly" love from an older man and feels secure and loved solely by him.
@jal1948 (1360)
• India
25 Feb 08
you hit the nail on the head
@samson1967 (7422)
• India
29 Dec 06
Not all young girls hangaround with old (gentle)men. Young girls who are unsecured financially, deprived of Love and Affection and who believe in the known saying "OLD IS GOLD" will opt Old Men to be thier partner/friend. Generally Old men are broad in their thinking, financially secured and mentally metured than young men, who will be on the threshold of financial success.
@jal1948 (1360)
• India
25 Feb 08
sometimes they love certain qualities in their father and expect their fathers qualities toreflect in the man of their choice. but you are right not all of then hang around with old men