Have You Ever Loved Someone That You Need to Walk Away?

@Kelly16 (252)
Philippines
December 29, 2006 3:05am CST
Have you ever loved someone you are not supposed to love? (maybe he is committed or with any other reason)and yet you have no choice but to walk on separate paths even if you both know you still love each other? Leaving someone where there is still so much love between the two of you is the hardest thing to do. What do you think?
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• United States
29 Dec 06
Yes I have. We started out friends. Grew up together. I think we always sorta liked or crushed each other in jr. high/high school. We kept going our seperate ways. Always staying friends and reconnecting here and there. Thought about getting together...but we married other people...have familys. We are still friends but love each other dearly!
@Kelly16 (252)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
Nice to know that. I guess there is this thing beyond being together, you stayed in love with each other even if you never ended up together.
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@Kelly16 (252)
• Philippines
1 Jan 07
It's nice of you to share this with us and with me. I am touched and can somewhat relate to you though mine have different circumstances but still it's the same that we have to let go and still love the person and keep the friendship.
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• United States
2 Jan 07
Thanks and I'm glad that I could be of some help. I hope your situation turns out as well as mine did!!!
@viking888 (390)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
Knew a love before since high school, but I graduated ahead of her and concentrated with my studies in college, almost forgetting her. Then when we got to know each other again, we fell in love more deeply, only to find out that she was already married and is bound to leave for Australia. It was a very hard situation to accept. We knew we were supposed to be for each other, but somehow, it did not happen. Maybe God had other plans for me. I had to accept that it was also my fault as I had not attendted to her continously due to my college ambitions. After half a year, I had to leave for HK to work and tried forget her by marrying a friend. We lost contact for many years, but in one visit to my mother's house did I find out that for all the years we were separated, she has been sending me cards continously and without fail. My mom was trying to hide it from me so as not to offend my wife. Wrote her and we found ourselves seeing each other again, but with restraint and faith that it will only be friendship and up to now, we are still the best of friends.
@Kelly16 (252)
• Philippines
30 Dec 06
There are people we meet in our lives that are destined to be our love forever no matter where we are in our lives. We may not end up with that person but he/she will always have our heart. Love beyond time and circumstances.
@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
yes i did it once. i never know he is married.. he is a disc jockey. since i really love music i used to call on every radio station to do some request. one time he is the jock and he chats with me for he is in the afternoon slot that time.. so it is not prime time for a radio station.until he calls me everytime he goes on board. he also visited me in my workplace. he use to court me. and when its time for me to accept him he confessed that he is married. i cant accept the reality that he is married for i do love him already. until one day i drop by the station and he introduced to me his wife.. it really hurts me. since then i decided to stay away from him... :(
@Kelly16 (252)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
You could still love someone from a distance. And yes walking away from someone you love is the hardest thing a person could do.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
11 Apr 08
yes, i believe it is really hard to do.. when people are so in love or they do love each other so much... walking away from each other will be the last option.. i guess. if people love each other, they should be able to stand all trials and not leave each other... at least that is what ia was thinking... i guess its just up to the lovers to decide.
@soneparm (634)
• India
29 Dec 06
i think i never choose different path and i love her
@Kelly16 (252)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
Even if you know you are not supposed to love her and some people may get hurt if you choose to be with her? Sometimes that's how love is, you have to make sacrifices to do the right thing. Love the person even if you can't stay together and just have him in your heart.