Making A Great First Impression On Women

@don123 (114)
Pakistan
December 29, 2006 12:59pm CST
ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do count. Here are some figures to consider from my studies. If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc). If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad. It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you. Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best. Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions. Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes. Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out. Why are shoes my number 5 S? Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable. What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed. Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing. Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days. Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too. Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much. One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering. I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT! And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. To find out how, check out my page.
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35 responses
• India
29 Dec 06
thanks a lot for your tips.i usually follow them,but i think its not that important to shave,i think its better if you keep some very short grown beards on your face.beard which is 1 days old,i think that gives a more manly tint to your look.and last of all i would have accepted your proposal to find out more secrets at your page but i fear i am engaged and i would get severe beating if i try to impress any women anymore.hehe.really thanks for your tips.
• India
29 Dec 06
hey the second post was by you only.how do you copy and paste??i am confused.
30 Dec 06
Since you won't see that up there I'll repost it down here. Suchetan, that’s ridiculous, you -do- not get more points by posting multiple times on a discussion so there is no reason what so ever to report someone for doing so, most of the time it's an accident, an error saying the discussion wasn't posted when it infact was. The only reason report the person would be the response did not related to the original discussion.
30 Dec 06
I believe you get to copy and past after 500 posts or more, because apparently you're more "responsible" then.
@musha_ali (392)
• Pakistan
30 Dec 06
just be good and yur talking should be a good one....
@haranv (571)
• India
30 Dec 06
be good and behave good..u will get a gf soon
• Canada
29 Dec 06
I'd like to add to your list! Always trim the nostril hairs!! Nothing grosser! ewww
• United States
30 Dec 06
correctly said maam... i may add also to check on having clean ears everyday!
• India
29 Dec 06
ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do count. Here are some figures to consider from my studies. If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc). If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad. It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you. Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best. Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions. Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes. Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out. Why are shoes my number 5 S? Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable. What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed. Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing. Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days. Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too. Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much. One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering. I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT! And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! 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• Zambia
30 Dec 06
pretty long and u repeated the very long thing u r talking about! lol
• India
30 Dec 06
you definetly ned to hav a good first impressin ...be it girls or interviews .....or anything else for tht matter ...so b gud .....& think b4 u do anything ....coz its da matter of ur first & best impession
• India
30 Dec 06
well as far as it think.. to make an impression.. just start by showing a bit of attitude..and when she feels like talking to you..make her feel very comfortable.. just that they feel that their perception about you was totally wrong.. and i guess then the impression a woman has about you.. it can never change..
@jen20619 (1302)
• Ireland
30 Dec 06
Been a woman myself I would have to agree with your tips.I just love a guy that dresses well.All clean cut and shaven is what Im into .Good manners are always a plus sign in my book .
• India
30 Dec 06
to some extent u are correct but i dont agree with your 5 s theorm.these 5 s are short lived and when women come to know your soul they dont give much importance to these s.
• India
30 Dec 06
Great stuff man i am going to start it from today and will surely tell you about its outcome.
@aelyus (635)
• Romania
30 Dec 06
even you believe women are strange creatures it's verry easy to please them (of course, if you aren't jerk!). you ahave all the chances if you are a sincer, kind and understanding person. doesn't have to mean that the material world doesn't matter...if you are pretty you have all the chances in the world
• India
30 Dec 06
i think "first impression is the lost impression", so when you meet first time then good impect on her ,
• India
30 Dec 06
yup ..first impression does count big time .....!! well u could say its the foundation stage for the things to move forward ....!!! not only in case of women but in any situation in life .....!!!
• Australia
30 Dec 06
I don't know I'm not good at it
@deepakg4 (897)
• India
30 Dec 06
i have already done this
• India
30 Dec 06
Very interesting and helpul contribution i must say.Woul dlike to add ust one thing-Be yourself.Dont try to be someone else or have put-on.
@depakbhat (117)
• India
30 Dec 06
looks like u got a doctorate studyin these statistics!!! :-)
• India
30 Dec 06
hey man before i put down any further response, can i know how many girl friends do u have. hey i am just joking. any how ur topic of discussion was good enough to attract many and the manner u presented was good. but one doubt, do it really work coz i dont know all these before {trust me} but i do maintain 4 of ur tips and many others apart from what uy have mentioned but no one did ever turned up, i think there is something more above all these to attract women i.e a gentle eye contact. yes it works a lot, not only with women but also with men, this is very imp in every day to day life wether it be an interview or ur personal life any way thanx for ur topic, and one more thing i have gone through ur profile and ur disscussions, the later r very interesting bye take care
@jo0911 (135)
• Philippines
30 Dec 06
all I can say is that being true to yourself makes a great impression to women but we must be true to ourselves by means of expressing ourselves and not by impressing.
@plumwish07 (4060)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 06
ha ha ha ha ha good tips for guys, my friend. ya, you're right if you able to perform best on the first impression, you can say you having chance about 70% (sorry this is my opinion as female) and the 30% really determined by your behaviour and your attitude to girls
@deepaksur (122)
• India
30 Dec 06
its very way to impress the women by various ways. firstly in front of that woman we do some good things. like helping of old people and help the children.