My Father is Ill and Wants Me To Pull The Plug, Please Help Me!

United States
December 31, 2006 3:53pm CST
My father is 83 years old and has been hospitalized for almost 2 months now. He has been diagnosed with a type of terminal cancer and needs to be connected to a life support machine that feeds him nutrients in order to keep him alive. There is no hope of a cure but he could possibly stay alive for a significant period of under this machine. In our most recent conversation he asked me to unplug the machine that keeps him alive, he said I am the only person he would ask to do this and that he would understand if I didn't do it but he made it clear that he had nothing left to live for and that it was his wish to pass sooner than to live in his death bed any longer. Obviously this is an incredibly hard issue for me to think through and that is why I am asking only for serious responses from concerned people on this website. Thank You.
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@caribe (2465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I am sorry that you are having to face such a difficult decision. Have the doctors given any opinion on this? Many people have a living will where they write down their wishes to not be on life support machines. Nobody else can make that decision for you. I have never been asked to make that kind of decision so I don't know what I would do, although I don't think I could something like that. Talk to the doctors about your father's wishes and see what they have to say about it. I will pray for you and your father.