I need some advice please

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I have been married for 11 years, and have 4 children. I love my husbcand very much, but now he says he wants a divorce. He won't file, and wants me to. I have accused him before of cheating, but I don't really think he has. I don't know if I should stay, and hope things get better, or if I should leave and try to start over. It would be different if we didn't have kids. We do fight, but not really very much, and never in front of the kids. The thing is, I really do love him, and want to work things out.