Does anyone else homeschool their children?

@goldjay (465)
United States
January 1, 2007 8:46pm CST
I homeschool my daughter and will homeschool my son as he gets bigger. If you homeschool, what are your reasons and what kind of curriculum do you use? I homeschool because I was very unhappy with the public school curriculum and because it just seemed like the right thing to do. I use a prepared curriculum that I purchased from a reputable school. I wouldn't give up homeschooling unless I felt it was in the best interests of my children and at htis point I do not.
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@Khokhonut (702)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I don't homeschool my children. I just don't feel like I am organized or structured enough to do it properly. I think it is a great option to have though.
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Yes, it does take some amount of organization and structure but you'd be amazed at how, once you get started, it is so easy. I know it's not for everyone and it's great that those of us who do want to, can!
• United States
2 Jan 07
My sister-in-law homeschools my niece and nephew. i'm not sure what cirriculum she uses. I know that her and my brother were not satisfied with the public school system and with all the violence and things going on. They are raising their kids in church and a lot of their friends are homeschooled as well. My sister-in-law's sister is also homeschooling her sons and seems to like it very well. I think you learn more and it makes your family bond tighter with homeschool. I think it is wonderful of women now days wanting to stay at home and raise their children. I praise you for your decision.
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Thank you. I think it is better for the whole family unit myself and I also think my daughter learns more.
@design (849)
• Ireland
11 Jan 07
Just wanted to say well done to all those who homeschool their children and best of luck in the future doing so. Not quite sure how many if any homeschool their kids here (Ireland) I imangine it's not many, But I think we have a good mix of schools here ?? I send my children to an Educate Together School, It's fantastic.
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
13 Jan 07
Glad to hear of your great schools in Ireland! That's so nice. Here in the US, there is often very little choice in schools (unless you can pay big bucks!)
@apostrofy (661)
• Romania
2 Jan 07
i've seen from the disscusions here alot of people are in favor of homeschool. i understand that public schools might not provide all the education and knowledges needed, but in my opinion homeschool is not an option. they miss alot of things. bonding with other children, learning to understand and adjust to different kind of learning and demands (provided by different teachers) and they even learn to organize their time for the terms. i don't know if kids are that motivated to learn when they are rated by mom or dad, while having to learn at school also develops their sense of competition (at home they don't have anyone to compete with). i do see however homeschool as an after classes solution to add some knowledges to what u'r kid is already learning in school.
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• Romania
4 Jan 07
well no need to become angry by what i said, it's just my personal opinion. and if she really wants to learn more as u say she does, she will learn a little extra even after school. i went to public school and spend extra time with my grandfather to learn more. not every day, but few days a week and i can't complain. anyone has it's own opinion about education and that is my own way of seeing things, no need for u to agree with me or for me to agree with u. if u believe for u'r kid it's better like this then it must be and i do wish u all the best
@goldjay (465)
• United States
13 Jan 07
I'm not angry...just stating my opinions. I went to public school too and did fine but public school today is way different from the public schools I went to.
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
What kid wants mom or dad to teach them MORE stuff after they've already spent a day in school???? None that I know of. As for adjusting to differnt kinds of learnning, that's why my daughter takes classes at different places. She has a lot of different teachers besides mom and dad. She is not motivated by mom and dad rating her either. She is motivated because she actually WANTS to learn! She has more friends and a better sense of the real world than most public schooled kids I know!
• United States
2 Jan 07
I homeschool my children and have been doing it since the beginning. My daughter, who is in 2nd grade, also goes to a charter school three days a week for two hours at a time. She takes science and spanish classes there. I like this arrangement because it gives her the chance to get a taste of a real school setting yet not be there all day and I still homeschool her on most of her subjects. My son does the K12 virtual charter school and it works well for him and I. I homeschool for social reasons and personal convictions. Thanks for the topic.
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I wish we had that type of charter school here but we don't. There are still many classes she can take at different locations so that is nice too. I agree with you for the reasons you stated for homeschooling. Thanks for replying.
• United States
2 Jan 07
How do I find a charter school?
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• United States
3 Jan 07
I have homeschooled my 10yo son from the beginning. It wasn't something I had planned to do and I was not homeschooled myself. But I ended up with a different kid than I imagined and at some point I realized it wasn't a choice. It was a necessity if I wanted him to not lose his love for learning and continue to be himself. He has always been very high energy, excessively talkative, persistant, and very advanced in several subjects. After talking to people in the school system when he was ready to enter Kindergarten, I was not satisfied with the answers I received about what they could do for a high energy (no, not ADD) kid already reading at 4th grade level and at 2nd grade math level. We use an "unschooling" format and create our own curriculum. It's what works for us. We will continue to homeshool as long as it is the best choice at the time. If he goes to a public school at some point, it will be his choice and because it is a better choice at that time. He is around public schooled kids on a regular basis so knows the subjects they are studying and the challenges they face.
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Oh my, I could have written your post other than the choice of curriculum! I have a daughter, instead of a son, who is very high energy, very talkative, and very bright. Upon entering kindergarten, she too was reading at a 4th or 5th grade level. She adores reading! I actually went to visit the kindergarten and saw the stuff that they were doing there. I described my child to the teacher and asked her what she would be doing in kindergarten. She told me she'd have to do the same thing as everyone else even though she had already thoroughly mastered those lessons!!!! I was told I could have her tested and maybe put into first grade but my child could not have sat through a first graders day at school. She was still a young kindergartener even though she was so smart. I kept her home with me and ahve not regretted a single moment!
@goldjay (465)
• United States
13 Jan 07
I have really mixed feelings about skipping grades too. I mean, it is good to have curriculum that is slightly challenging rather than boring but if you are the oldest kid in your class that can be a problem among the kids. As it is, as a homeschooler, my daughter can work at whatever grade she happens to be at in a particular subject and she gets along with so many different aged kids because none of them care sinc ethey are all different ages.
• United States
4 Jan 07
In our school district, they only let kids skip grades twice - one in elementary and once in middle/high school. They don't let kids skip kindergarten. I have mixed feelings about skipping grades anyhow. While he might be intellectually mature, he's still at his chronological age emotionally. He does tend to migrate to the older kids in a group but I know it's for the intellectual stimulation.
• United States
3 Jan 07
I do not, but I support anyone who chooses to do this. I couldnt do it with my children, I posted somewhere else along the same lines that I trust the system and like it in the area that we live. It gives me more inspiration as a parent to teach my children that in "that enviornment" to make better choices throughout their life. My parents had me in public school's and there were a lot of things I had to learn on my own and keeping me at home wouldnt have changed it one bit. There are several ways I could have taken my life, but having support and advice and direction from my parents conquered over everything and Im happy with the smart choices I have made.
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Thanks for the comments!
@sharon613 (2321)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I've been very much considering homeschooling my youngest, but he needs to get out everyday.
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Yes, as homeschoolers, we do get out most days. We make our schedule so that we are home at least one day per week all day. Other days we are home at least part of hte day. We love to get out and do stuff with other homescoolers and once you hook up with a local group, there is so much to do you are actually having to turn opportunities down. From field trips to the water company to homeschool bowling leages, it's all out there!!!
• United States
3 Jan 07
oh my gosh Sharon! Excellent comment because I know alot of people who aren't familiar with homeschooling think homeschoolers hole up at home most of the time. I've always thought that homeschooling needs a new name. It is very deceiving. I think you would find that the majority of homeschoolers aren't home very much at all. I know I don't represent all homeschoolers but sometimes I would love to have a few more days where I don't have to go somewhere.
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• United States
3 Jan 07
I do not homeschool my children, but I was a homeschooled child. It was about 15 years ago. I have to say that I enjoyed being homeshooled and think that I probably learned more from this than I would of in public school. I lived in a large city and the schools were way to full to be able to actually devote any time at all to the children.
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
That's great to hear a success story. How come you don't homeschool your children?
@thumper2 (127)
• United States
3 Jan 07
When we homeschooled we used abeka curriculum mixed with workbooks from Walmart, Kmart & Staples. I homeschooled my oldest daughter because it was the best thing for her at that age due to problems she was having at school. Now she is older and my youngest daughter is in Kindergarten and they both go to public school, they are doing good in school and I am glad to have a break from homeschooling. Homeschooling was only done as a last resort for us, it turned out to be a very stressful thing for me because we were so busy building a house at the same time. I am not totally happy either with the public schools in our area, but my youngest really loves school and I think right now it is good for our kids to have some friends their age. I don't buy in to that socialization thing, it's just best right now for them to be in school. That's great if you are teaching at home, it can be a very rewarding experience if done correctly and you have the time and patience to do it. Every parent needs to explore and find what's right for their children. Who knows, at some point we may have to go back to homeschooling - I'll do what's best for my kids at that point. Good luck to you in your homeschooling!
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Homeschooling is a very indificuatlized decision. It was the right decision for our family. I have homeschooled for 2 1/2 years and not regretted a single moment of it.
• United States
3 Jan 07
We've homeschooled our kids for since our son was 8 and our daughter was 6. They are now 18 and 16. We've always made an effort to have them involved in group activies, church and 4H, homeschool groups and such. They are generally more able to get along with a wider range of ages than kids that are in school. They act more grownup and mature and often are able to spell and speak better than the kids in school. We started homeschooling because we felt it was something the Lord was leading us to do and haven't felt led to put them back in school. Our daughter, now, doesn't want to go to school. I think if I were to make her go back to school, I'd have trouble with her. She's a little different, not a girly girl and would probably get teased a lot. She's always been very sensitive.
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
That is wonderful! Very inspiring! Thanks for the cmments!
2 Jan 07
We were definitely going to homeschool our boys because the school system was so terrible. We have now moved and I'm finding out about the school here before we make a final decision. We had chose the Sonlight curriculum. I will never hesitate to homeschool if I feel it's necessary.
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Sonlight is a good curriculum if you like a lot of reading! We do love to read here and we have used some of Sonlights currriculum but not all of it. It is great and ahs great books!
@Ekacker (26)
• United States
2 Jan 07
My husband and I are both public school teachers, but that doesn't mean we don't see value in homeschooling. I think it can be a terrific alternative if the parents are motivated and for certain types of children. My son has a learning disability in reading...and he MUST pass the state reading test this year (3rd grade) in order to be promoted to the next grade. If he doesn't pass it, I may very well be homeschooling him next year because I think it's insane that one test will decide whether or not he is ready for the next grade. But that's a whole different discussion...
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
That sounds like just one piece of red-tape that school systems are known for. You are right that if he has a learning disability, he shouldn't necessarily meet the same standards as other children. Homeschhooling is great for these types of kids who often get teased the most in schools anyway. Good luck!
• India
11 Jan 07
Homeschooling may be one of the new budding things of the millenium. But icant predict how effective it will be.YOu say that you get the cirriculamm from a reputable school then why not join u kids there ? Thats what I feel. But if you are mentally strong that this education will do much good to your kids than wat schooling does then I beg you to continue... This is one of the new entertaining IDEAS.. SO Htas off to you..
@goldjay (465)
• United States
13 Jan 07
The reason that my daughter does not go to the school where we get her curriculum from is that the school is 100 miles from our house! They send the curriculum all over the world.
@anja31 (708)
• Canada
2 Jan 07
no I not homeschool my children. Somethimes I think about it but still they are going to school
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Thanks for commenting. It is a great alternative if you ever choose it!
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
2 Jan 07
Yes my girlfriend does. But I dont think it is any good for the kids now they dont have many friends. Because in school you learn how to get along with other people and they lacking in that. Also they only get taught for a couple hours aday. Im sorry I dont think that is enough time.
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
You'd be amazed at how much a kid can learn in a couple of hours without the distractions you have in public schools. My daughter learns more at home in a couple of hours than her peers learn all day in school. She can concentrate and get it done so she can move on to other activities. And, she is very well socialized and has learned how to get along very well with a whole variety of kids. In public school, you are forced to be friends with kids who happen to be born the same year you were born but as a homeschooler my daughter has friends from 3 years younger to 5 years older and they are boys and girls and they all get along sooo welll.....
@cdirock (289)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I would never homeschool my child. I don't have the patience and I think it would be very hard to do. I understand that lots of people do homeschool their kids. I am very happy with my school district so I wouldn't even consider it. I don't know how good it is for kids anyhow. They get no socialization with other kids etc.
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
You are wrong about the fact that they get no socialization. In school they get no socialization!!!! Teachers are always telilng kids to be quiet and not to socialize. Those that do are bullying each other or teasing. My kid goes to more activities and gets more exposure to real life and she knows how to handle all types of situations. She goes to art classes where the kids sit around and chat while they work. She goes to gym classes where kids have to work together. She knows kids of many different ages and works well in multiage settings.
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
2 Jan 07
My best friend home school her son he just started school. She is doing it for the same reasons you are she doen't trust the public school systems and I don't blame her now days
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@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Yeah, it can be pretty bad at times. The school my daughter would have gone to wanted her to basically be bored in kindergarten. We visited in March of the year prior to when she would have attended and she could have participated in the lesson and gotten all the answers correct without even having had the class.
@akosi63 (331)
• Philippines
2 Jan 07
Homeschooling is a tough and a great job. It is better coz the parent and the child have more time together, aside from teaching them academically, you will also be able to guide them well. The lessons, the bond that only a parent can teach their child
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Yes, I totally agree!
@tanaclark (570)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I homeschool my 15 year old. I use curriculum that is provided by a virtual school. I homeschool my daughter because she is very smart and it is easier for her to work at her own pace and be able to go forward when she is ready and not have to wait for the rest of the class. I also think that with all the shootings that happen in public schools these days that children are much safer at home.
@goldjay (465)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I so agree with you. I think schools are scary with all of the violence but I also homeschool because my daughter is very smart and would be bored in public school. As it is, she is a grade level ahead of her public school age.