Raped Girl will fear to marriege ?

India
September 28, 2006 3:12pm CST
Ofcourse ! She could not forget that terrible situation !
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• United States
29 Sep 06
I would think that she would be scared. Married women have been raped by their husbands, too.
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• India
21 Oct 06
Why the husbent need to Rape ??? He is licence Holder ???
@dellion (6706)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 06
I think ice was right cause "rape" meant by force and if the wife been force to make love then it was rape!
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• United States
22 Oct 06
I agree with Weasel_Sponge.
• Hyderabad, India
17 Oct 06
they lost there virgin that why
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• India
21 Oct 06
She losts all things
@pkps1968 (415)
• India
21 Oct 06
In India a bad impression guarended !
• India
29 Sep 06
B4 marriage if she tells about that to her fiancy it would be nice to lead her life in a smooth way. It is difficult and horrible thing. The person by knowing everything is ready to marry her, He is great,simply superb. There is no mistake of her is she is raped.
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• India
21 Oct 06
That man can save a life of that girl !!!
@pkps1968 (415)
• India
22 Oct 06
That is realy great !
@Aali311 (6127)
• United States
29 Sep 06
Not if they love the person they will marry, they will feel safe with that person and not fear.
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• India
21 Oct 06
Raped girl will be always in confussions !!
@Ravenladyj (22940)
• United States
8 Dec 06
thats not true at all...I was raped twice once at 13 and again by 3 attackers at 17 and yes it is very difficult to recover from but it doesnt mean one is doomed to live in fear forever...Healing hasnt been easy and its taken a long time to get to where I am now and yes I still am very iffy about ppl and at times I dont trust my husband in all honesty but its a self preservation mechanism
@Linsha (41)
• India
1 Dec 06
it may be an unforgotable happening for a girl! so she will fear to marry
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@pkps1968 (415)
• India
8 Dec 06
Have faced such situations in life?
• Hong Kong
22 Oct 06
that's not a problem i think the average rape in us is around 1 rape per 3 min..
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• India
25 Oct 06
Very difficult for girls
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• United States
29 Sep 06
This is something she will be haunted with forever. I don't seem to feel like it is your girl. I can tell you therapy will be needed. This is such a hard thing to deal with. Emotionalally it can spark up at any time. The husband may not be ready to deal with these issues.
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@pkps1968 (415)
• India
18 Nov 06
You are brining the throoth!
@sammy1128 (241)
• China
1 Dec 06
yes,it is horrible,marriage would make her think of the violence.
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• United States
21 Oct 06
hmmm tough call depends how mentally strong she is
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@dellion (6706)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 06
I truly believed the girls been raped will never forget the sad thing and can hardly come out from the fear the rest of their life.
• Canada
21 Oct 06
Speaking as someone who has been raped, I certainly don't live my life in fear. It may have had a psycological impact on me in many ways, and at the time you feel as if you would have been better-off has the person killed you, but I took from that experience all that I could, becomming a more empathetic, compassionate person. I am not a victim any more, nor do I live my life this way.
• Canada
21 Oct 06
Oops...should read "...had the person..."
@pkps1968 (415)
• India
1 Dec 06
Actually it is a SAD thing, So they also try to hide the things It may affect her futer life!
@musman9 (136)
• South Korea
8 Dec 06
Fear... I donot think so.. But She will not forget it. It will be a clink on her for life .
@pkps1968 (415)
• India
9 Dec 06
It is not the fear ! But may be irretating some thing!
@vipul20044 (5800)
• India
22 Oct 06
well she would but then to be practical, she has to lead her life on Thats one incident and not end of the life I know its really very difficult, to have emotions or to love someone later in life But all's said and done Time is the best healer
@pkps1968 (415)
• India
22 Oct 06
Yes It is very dificult !
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@kutchi (12335)
• Pakistan
21 Oct 06
Ofcorse But We have to courage them not ignore them
• India
12 Nov 06
Very good suggection !
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Yes, it would be very hard for such girl to cope up with the situation. But when she thinks of marriage then I guess she consider that fact already. She cannot go on with life holding on to that past. =)
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
maybe, yes. i know it could be hard for the girl who got raped. everything will and might come back to her even if she has moved on.
• India
8 Dec 06
ya they mentally feared about the marriage.
@firdaus (686)
• Malaysia
8 Dec 06
hmmm... of course la...
@linkpointe (1003)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
Any rape victim will undergo such trauma in their lives. It will really be hard for them to cope up with a normal life that they deserve after what had happened. Marrying will be the least thing in their minds after the incident. I think she needs a long process of healing the wounds that caused her. Any non organization or church organization can help her out of the shell, and explore the world she must be spiriting with...
@madlough (69)
• India
8 Dec 06
definitly they will be in fear, it is an accediant what she had earlier
• United States
27 Nov 06
To me, marriage is a choice. The girl should not have to marry if she does not want to. With rape, when a girl is raped it is a horrible thing, the girl needs to have counciling after a situation such as that.