Raped Girl will fear to marriege ?
@Buterfly_india (219)
India
29 responses
@ice_princess4eva (28)
• United States
29 Sep 06
I would think that she would be scared. Married women have been raped by their husbands, too.
@praveenkumar06 (4077)
• Hyderabad, India
17 Oct 06
they lost there virgin that why
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@komal_swetha (821)
• India
29 Sep 06
B4 marriage if she tells about that to her fiancy it would be nice to lead her life in a smooth way. It is difficult and horrible thing. The person by knowing everything is ready to marry her, He is great,simply superb.
There is no mistake of her is she is raped.
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
8 Dec 06
thats not true at all...I was raped twice once at 13 and again by 3 attackers at 17 and yes it is very difficult to recover from but it doesnt mean one is doomed to live in fear forever...Healing hasnt been easy and its taken a long time to get to where I am now and yes I still am very iffy about ppl and at times I dont trust my husband in all honesty but its a self preservation mechanism
@yogeshchhikara (594)
• Hong Kong
22 Oct 06
that's not a problem i think the average rape in us is around 1 rape per 3 min..
@Weasel_Sponge (1069)
• Canada
21 Oct 06
Speaking as someone who has been raped, I certainly don't live my life in fear. It may have had a psycological impact on me in many ways, and at the time you feel as if you would have been better-off has the person killed you, but I took from that experience all that I could, becomming a more empathetic, compassionate person. I am not a victim any more, nor do I live my life this way.
@vipul20044 (5794)
• India
22 Oct 06
well she would but then to be practical, she has to lead her life on
Thats one incident and not end of the life
I know its really very difficult, to have emotions or to love someone later in life
But all's said and done
Time is the best healer
@bobthesk8er (86)
• United States
21 Oct 06
hmmm tough call depends how mentally strong she is
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@mikee_meeh (168)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Yes, it would be very hard for such girl to cope up with the situation. But when she thinks of marriage then I guess she consider that fact already. She cannot go on with life holding on to that past. =)
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
27 Nov 06
It would depend on the girl! I ran into an old coworker of mine and she told me that she was raped at a party. The way she was telling me was like she had gotten over it because they had caught the guy that did it. She was also expecting a baby. In her case taking her personality and her life into consideration I don't belive she would be afraid to get married. I think it would be one of her dreams to in the future. And you know some girls do forget what happens to them. One day she along with other girls that have been raped will meet someone to help them forget thier fear. Yeah they will never forget what happened but they will get over it.(I did not say EVERY GIRL)!
@linkpointe (1003)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
Any rape victim will undergo such trauma in their lives. It will really be hard for them to cope up with a normal life that they deserve after what had happened. Marrying will be the least thing in their minds after the incident. I think she needs a long process of healing the wounds that caused her. Any non organization or church organization can help her out of the shell, and explore the world she must be spiriting with...
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
27 Nov 06
To me, marriage is a choice. The girl should not have to marry if she does not want to. With rape, when a girl is raped it is a horrible thing, the girl needs to have counciling after a situation such as that.
