If your friend misunderstand you, what do you do?

@xiongqh (791)
Hong Kong
January 2, 2007 4:04am CST
Sometimes I have been misunderstood by my friend, I feel so bad, and don't know how to deal with this case. What is your opinion? and do you have this experience?
3 responses
• Philippines
2 Jan 07
the best way to deal with this situation is to have a heart-to-heart talk with whoever misuderstood you then make the necessary explanations. dont expect your friend to understand everything. give him/her time to allow the explanation to sink in, allow your friend to process what you said. if after a while she/he still would not accept the explanation or would go on believing waht she/he wants to believe then i guess its time for you to go.
• China
2 Jan 07
yes,i agree with this idea!
@xiongqh (791)
• Hong Kong
3 Jan 07
Thanks for your advise, I will do explain though cannot get her forgive. It take some time to waiting.
@cindy83 (133)
• China
4 Jan 07
I do have this kind of experience. I think the communication is important to you all, two people need further commnunicate to show what they thought. If someone misunderstand you, you don't need to angry, stop agument and give apace each other, then you can seek solution to solve problem. Wish you have happy life with your friend.
@xiongqh (791)
• Hong Kong
5 Jan 07
Thanks you, I try my best to do. you are wisely.
• India
3 Jan 07
this hhapens to everyone. the first thing you need to do is talk to that frined and try and sort everything out. if that doesn't work or your friend refuses ti talk to you give it sometime let things setlle down and then try talking. everything will become fine cause we all need friends and none of us want to lose them.