1st DATE

i'm 47 years old. when i was in high school i dated one guy for three years. in college i explored more. i dated 2 to 3 times a week with many different people. after college i joined the military and dated similarly, 2 to 3 days a week with many different people. that's why i think it's better to keep 1st dates "safe." it's more comfortable for everyone and if you have someone that might pressure to do things u don't want to do you have an out.

i like first dates to be casual. i prefer them to be in the afternoon or early evening. maybe a lunch or just drinks after work. something where there's no pressure to stay if you don't feel that special something u need to want the relationship to continue.