Whom do boys and men prefer, fatally beautiful girls or brainy girls?
January 7, 2007 9:59am CST
Many times when i see television or read a book, it is always the "femme fatale" beautiful girls that the boys run after.Many times they also depict that in the long run, the hero comes to the girl-next-door brainy gal. It is simply so confusing that whether beauty counts more or being an intelligent person or even a good human being?
• United States
10 Jan 07
First off great discussion. I myself have often wondered the same thing.For me I always went after the girl/woman that, in my eyes, was the total package. Maybe she wasn't the prettiest for the smartest, I wanted a good balance between both. I got pretty lucky woth my wife. She challanges me in subjects I normally would have blown off, I think she is beautiful. Right now I am helping her combat a self appearence issue. I always found that if one always goes for the "prettiest" they will be let down in one way or another. Gow about I turn this discussion the other way. Who do girls prefer? The "jock", the "nerd", or the "bad boy"? then comes the obligatory why?
4 Jul 07
The first I got asked by this question I immediately said the "brainy guy" then later on I've made my own standard for guys I would go out on a date or be my boyfriend. I've met guys who pass the standard but guess what? I fell to the guy who's the exact opposite of my "ideal" partner and I just scratched off my standard so the guy could fit in my life and I to him. The relationship didn't last though because of some issues that we could not resolve. Anyway, if i am to choose a guy, I would go for the one who above all has relationship with God =).