married without permission

@Didon31 (106)
Indonesia
January 7, 2007 9:13pm CST
I had married with someone who really I love. I had married for 2 years, but his parents don't know that they son have been married. It happen because my husband not finish his study yet. I feel guilty cause every time I met his parent I must lie and feel nothing happen. unsure.gif what must I do? Must I say the true? or I will waiting until my husband finish his study?
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4 responses
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
Were You Legally married. I do not understand why you should not be honest with your parents. Sooner or later, they will come to know, In case you get pregnant, what will you tell your child? I strongly suggest you tell the truth about your marriage.
@Didon31 (106)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 07
thank you for your advise.
@SomeCowgirl (32266)
• United States
15 Aug 10
My husband and I are married and neither of us have gone to college. We had to struggle at first to get the money for the wedding, but we had the help of his parents, and my husband also got a job shortly before our wedding and so we were able to use his first paycheck for the last minute preparations on the wedding. My husband's parents knew, and so did my mom, but my dad did not find out until two months prior to the wedding because I was not talking to him. I think it's best to be upfront about it, after all I don't see where it has caused your husband any troubles with his studies, and it might be hurtful if they find out later, and find out how long you two have been married.
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
it pays to wait...I blieve that his parents will understand that once your boyfriend graduates from college. for now, have patience and inspire him to study well. everything will beo kat as long as yuo love each other and yuo do things one at a time.
@rikroy (91)
• India
26 Jan 07
hmmmm...better wait till your husband gets a job..if u tell now the matter would get serious...so think twice before taking a step...good luck..:)