What will you do If the family of your gf/bf doesnt like you?!

@susana25 (341)
Philippines
January 8, 2007 10:43am CST
Did you expenrience that? What will you do? Just give-up your gf/bf or you will please them (parents)?!
8 responses
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
it doesnt mater as long as my GF fights for me, trusts me, loves me, i dont care about what her parents say as long as they dont try anything to break us up. then it cool. thanks
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@susana25 (341)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
Yah your right, But what if they try to broke your relationship?! What will you do?
• Philippines
10 Jan 07
i got to do what i got to do, fight for someone who trust and love me, she believe in me and thats what im going to do.
@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
8 Jan 07
When I was in my early 20's, just out of college, I started dating a guy that my mom didn't like. She never came out and said she didn't like him, but I could tell because she treated him so much differently than she treated other guys I had dated. I dated him for about a year and then I started realizing that he really wasn't what I wanted... When I broke up with him, my mother admitted to me that she didn't like him and told me why... coincidently, they were the same reasons that I broke up with him! Sometimes I think it would have been better if she had said something to me, but then again, maybe I would have rebelled and stayed with him. I don't know. I'm just glad I found my husband shortly after that, and my mom just loves him :)
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@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Ooops, sorry, I didn't read your question right. You were asking if the bf's family didn't like you! Sorry! I thought you asked if your parents didn't like your bf. I haven't had that happen, so sorry, but I can't help!
@shobejen (644)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
i might give it a try to please his parents, if it doesn't work then i'll probably compete, but ofcourse i know i had a slight chance to win since they're his parents and i'm just a girlfriend... i will quit when i can finally say that i've tried my best...
• United States
8 Jan 07
if my boyfriend's family didn't like me I would sttick with him, but I just would not go over his parents house.
@susana25 (341)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
Mybe your right,as long as your bf loves you then go. thanks
@kd12cye (124)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
i will do what my heart and brains tell me. it wil depends on the situatuin of either the bf/gf..
• India
20 Jan 07
Am in a same kind of situation susana.Nothing much we can do about it.Just dont bother about it as long as your boyfriend loves you.
• United States
8 Jan 07
There is nothing you can do if they do not like you. It is up to the bf/gf to make a choice.
@ghost1380 (871)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
you dont have to worry about the parents of your partner all you have to worry is about how much you love each other.