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@ayushi (224)
India
January 9, 2007 2:33am CST
does beung from a different family backgrond matter a lot than one can not marry his or love.. m in love with a person who belongs to a different family background....but he is from a very strong background...reputed family..good education..and everything..above all this he loves me a lot.. i wish to tell about my love to my parents but i am afraid how to and if this topic of different backgrounds crops up then how will i handle it..please help me out
4 responses
16 Jan 07
It's true that coming from a similar background can make it easier to sustain a relationship, but many people from different backgrounds manage to make things work. If your parents ask about his family, just tell them what you just told us! That his family is good, that he is well-educated, and most importantly the strength of your love for each other. You managed to convince us that it is not a problem so use the same reasoning to convince your parents. Good luck!
@ayushi (224)
• India
16 Jan 07
thank you sir.. and thanx for responding also
@amgupta (274)
• India
11 Jan 07
i am getting what are you coming at. I think family background, and other things should not matter in love. However, you need to keep into mind the aspirations of your family members also. try to talk to your parents and explain the situation to them.
@ayushi (224)
• India
16 Jan 07
thanx for the respnse.. i think i got what you were trying to say..
• India
9 Jan 07
nobody can help u except u urself go out dere talk it out with ur parents they might not agree first but u hav 2 b timid enough to get what u want ...... im sure finally they shall giv up.....
@heeeena (39)
• India
15 Jan 07
NO,,not at all.I dnt think family background matters in love.U know what,u should try to convince your parents wid love about the rest qualities of that guy,n one imp. thing dnt take any decision wid heart only...See it thru the eyes of ur parents also,,n afterall what parents say,,thats all for our benefit. But u should try harder to get ur parents convinced n let them meet that guy,if his love is true,he would able to generate some soft feeling towards both of u,in their mind..