Why why why

@joanna07 (111)
Ireland
January 9, 2007 9:00am CST
Why do i find it hard to really trust boys?
3 people like this
12 responses
@justreal (2369)
• Canada
9 Jan 07
Because probably you have been hurt before. Have you?
@joanna07 (111)
• Ireland
9 Jan 07
thank you for ur response I have seen many people be hurt before and i hav been one of them but not hardly as bad as others as I known about.
• India
9 Jan 07
It is just your mental set or you may be in a very bad opinion about boys. You might have seen anyone of your close friends or relatives cheated or affected by boys ,these may be the reason. But it is not acceptable.
@joanna07 (111)
• Ireland
9 Jan 07
thanks for the respnse! what is not acceptable?
@edigital (2711)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Because you do not know well many good boy so you are always in doubt or you saw much untrusted boy and so cannot trust none. Do not be worry once you will get very trusty boy like me as I am too trusty and co-operative in all possible tasks.
@joanna07 (111)
• Ireland
9 Jan 07
Thanks for the respnse!
• Italy
9 Jan 07
BECAUSE YOU DON'T FIND ME:):):):)
@joanna07 (111)
• Ireland
9 Jan 07
thanks for the response!
@Fluplup (556)
• United States
21 Feb 07
If you got hurt when you trust your boyfriend, you will have hard time to heal. So what you can do just have friendship first, and step by step build up the trust beetwen you and him, let see if is work out better. Or just do what my sister did, after her divorced she never have a realitonship longterm, she don't let anybody hurt her anymore. ANd today she's very happy with one man. Give yourself time, time is the best medicine, just go out have fun, been this situation!+
• India
4 Feb 07
coz all the people are not same
• India
3 Feb 07
If u keep on wearing tat skimpy outfit u will never be able to trust boys.
• United States
2 Feb 07
Being a guy, my response is that you are looking for the wrong types of guys to be with. The first warning flag that popped up was the people that you admire. Paris Hilton and Britney Spears are not - in my esteem - role models, nor should they be the type of people you model your life after. They simply are trash. Try going to church or some community functions and see what type you meet there. You may not like my advice, but I have found nicer gals (I'm male) there than any club, bar or social setting I've frequented. Another factor may be that you just got burned a few too many times and/or were dating some bad people. It could just be coincidental and for that I'm sorry for you. Keep your head up and don't give up. You will eventually find the 'right stuff' in a guy. Good luck and take care!
@Pauleen (113)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
why? i didnt know why?
• India
28 Jan 07
due to sixth sence
• India
27 Jan 07
for the answer to this question.. let me ask one question from you that has any guy whom you might have trusted in life didn't came upto your expectation ? or the same incidence might have happened with your mothere or sister? If yes the I'm sorry to say that mam you should understand guys, try to make them friend, try to find out why that guy was unable to come upto your expectations, etc?
• India
27 Jan 07
because good things are hard to earn.