i have a problem
January 9, 2007 6:38pm CST
i met a girl who is 3 years old more young than me, im 16 and shes 13, i have sent her 2 messages, and i have not already talked with her after it. im looking the way to go and talk with her, but i dont know how, and what do i have to tell to her. help me!!!
10 Jan 07
That's a bit rude! A three year age gap hardly makes him a paedophile! But for the original post: IMHO I think about the best thing you can do is actually go and talk to her! I only got the main gist of your question - the rest is a bit muddled up...but I'm a big believer in talking things through with people. Don't just assume that they know what you are thinking / feeling, TELL THEM! =) Good luck...
24 Jan 07
If you really like that girl, then you will find a way to talk to her and if the dad is the problem then do something.. introduce yourself and be very a respectable guy. Have his trust that you will never hurt his little baby girl. However, my advice is let the girl be mature enough to handle this kind of situations. You are still 16 and you will still a lot to experience. She is 13 and give her time to grow up. Do not be anxious or get worried that you will not be able to talk to her. It is very common to have these feelings when being in love or infatuated. Give her time to be a full grown lady then make your move.... but it is best to establish first some friendship and if you are lucky this will lead to true love.