i fear fate!

Philippines
January 9, 2007 9:46pm CST
nine months have passed after i have achieved my dream of finishing school, and all the while i thought it would be easier now to handle things without pressure. still, i've got no plans for myself. it's most difficult to make my plans now, because it's in these decisions that'll make or break me. the fear of dwelling out of the mundane is what fears me, because it is in the mundane where i feel secured. and with the sudden change of ending a life-long monotonous school life, the though of starting over another chapter already makes it difficult. how can i eliminate this fear?
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3 responses
• China
3 Feb 07
hi karen!thanks for recommending this site..it helps a lot.. well as for your problem, you don't have to fear fate.as the saying goes EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON..we can never tell where life will leads us. As early as now you should make plans of what you really want to do in your life. Not all the time your parents are there to tell you what to do or even your friends.After we graduated, pressure is stronger than before. Be matured enough to face the REAL WORLD. Grow up girl!..You know we are always here for you but not all the time.. ;)
@cuddleme01 (2728)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
hello fujin. it's normal to have fears on things we do not know about. fate is something that is fixed and yet unknown to us. We know we have our own fate yet we know not what it is. this makes thinking of our fate a bit scary. but you should try to conquer this fear and live life the way you want it. Live every single day of your life with the kind of future you expect in mind. This way you are driving your own direction in life. Fate may lead you to a different path, but at least on the way you have a choice. take care.
@COLLIS2 (480)
• United States
4 Feb 07
Fate is a difficult thing. After all, look at the movie Final Destination. But then again, we all have forks in the path of life so fate I believe can be altered. You just have to believe it can be done.