I truly LOVE her bu there is only one problem..........
January 10, 2007 9:26am CST
the age difference between us. Firstly, thanks to all of you guys for being concerned and giving me advices. You guys are truly great. Now, I know guys that I am starting this same discussion again but I need to add on one more thing which you can call as a flaw for us to get into a relationship. I was hesistant to tell this earlier because I myself was not confident on whether I should put this issue forward or no. But, now as I know that it will work fine when you guys will advise me on this is that a another hindrance apart from our age difference of eight years is that she is a divorcee and she was married for almost two years but then her relationship with that guy did not work out because he was two years younger to her. They used to have lots of fights and misunderstandings and finally they got seperated. Now, when we are together, we are kinda very comfortable with our relationship and also very happy. It is just that we are thinking about our parents aggreement and also theri happiness in this marriage alongwith our other family memebers. I truly LOVE her a lot and she also does but then these two things make her uncomfortable and stop her from loving me to the fullest. Please guys advise me on still we should go ahead and marry her and our relationship works out as I have also told her that I am discussing this issue with my friends here on mylot and she was very happy when she saw the responses for the earlier discussion coming to be positive. Thanks a lot guys, lol...