Is it cheating?

United States
January 10, 2007 1:02pm CST
Me and my bf(ex now)was seening each other about less than year.Then he had to leave back home b/c he had a warnt out for him(it was nothing bad just unpaid tickets).Next thing you know he told he couldnt come back out(didnt tell me a reason). But he tells me that he still wants to be w/me so we tried doing the long distance thing.It was going good the first half month than he stopped calling me(for two months) and of course i tried to call him constantly but still no answer.So i give up and i met a guy recently who lives here and we been seeing each other for about less than a month.All of a sudden he called me and acted like we never stopped talking.I asked him what happen he didnt really say anything just that he had some things to do.I told him that i gave up on him after he didnt return his phone calls.Of course i told him that i met another guy.He tells me in a tone "You cheated on me!?"i said its not cheating. Do you believe i cheated? I dont like to be the one cheating on anybody, i hate anyone being hurt like that esp the ones i care about.
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@RealHigh (41)
• India
10 Jan 07
I understand ur situation,'n wat u did was absolutely rite..y dont u tell him to see the positive side of it..Y dont u tell him that if there wud have been sumone else in ur place they wud hav found it rather not an important issue to be disscussed on or juss let go of it..But u did it,coz u cared for him 'n u felt that tellin him the truth wud be preferred rather than hiding this thing up ur entitre life..
@cowgirl2701 (2079)
• United States
10 Jan 07
I don't think it was cheating. He should have told you what was going on and that he wouldn't be able to talk to you for a while. If you agreed to that then it would be cheating. He wasn't returning your calls so you assumed it was over and went on with your life. He should have talked to you about not being able to talk to you ahead of time.