Do you need to wait till you are Married???????

January 10, 2007 1:16pm CST
Hi friends i want to ask you onething about being a virgin so do you think you need to be a virgin before marriage.
7 responses
@Geminigirl (1909)
• United States
10 Jan 07
It is really a personal choice between you and your partner. Each person feels differently about this. If you choose a certain way, and it feels right to you, then it is ok.
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10 Jan 07
yes of course you are correct but if the one with you had it is not your partner in future then what would it be a mistake or a blunder
• India
14 Jan 07
one need not be a virgin before a marriage, but if you think you would want to gift ur life partner a special gift in the form of ur virginity then you can go ahead but in todays time it would be difficult for to find even a girl from a rural village virgin by the time she gets married. so what if u stay virgin as a gift for ur wife but she is not a virgin when u get married. it would be a great disappointment. thus forget virginity and enjoy yourself.
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
11 Jan 07
i think the best way to answer this is imagine yourself in place of your partner and then tell would you like your partner to be virgin or spent. You have just got the right answer.
@tildy12 (760)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I think that is a personal choice.Its up to a person as to whether or not they want to wait or not they want to wait til their married .
• China
14 Jan 07
Well if guys can have se* before marriage then why can't women have se* before marriage too? it's only fair, I think
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
You DO NOT need to be a virgin before getting married. That is the oldest concept of morality here, and in this generation, virginity isn't such a big deal at all. Of course, it would be better to at least offer your virginity to the person you think is very much deserving for it, but hey, as long as you love the person you are with, and you are sure that you would not regret the deed that you have done, then, go. You do not need to be tied to a person thru marriage to do the deed. Heck, many marriages have been broken just because of that connotation. They got married, and when the deed is done, they realized that they do not love each other at all. So, as long as you love the person, do the deed! You can't live your life forever! gora, yebah!!
@Angelinka (1410)
• Italy
10 Jan 07
no way!!well i dont think even to get married...should i have to wait them untill i am 30 maybe?:)its not good for health:)hihi