How Does a woman wanted to be treated, No,... really?

United States
January 11, 2007 8:17am CST
I am a guy and my mom raised me that you treat women with respect! It seemed like every relation ship i got into i treated a woman like a princess and then it was over. and the woman always went to another guy that would beat on her or talk crazy to her. I found a woman since and married her but i never really understood it. was it something i was doing or was it just the women i was dating. women always say i want a man that treats me right but when they find one they back down. This isnt just in my prior relationships ive seen this with every guy i have ever met... Guys feel free to comment on this and correct me if im wrong. also tell us if you are the womanizer or the romeo
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@lilmissy (481)
• United States
12 Jan 07
well maybe you treated them like a princes butcame up short in oher areas no pun intended , it isnt just how you treat them could have been many things in ur personality that you dont see as a flaw that got on thier nerves and made them leave you
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• Japan
12 Jan 07
i know exactly how you feel my boyfriend treats e like a princess and i love him but he has this iritating habit of doing that lil kind of argueing over stupid things like if he forgot something he keeps saying he didnt and wont give it up! sometimes i think we will break up if it continues but he really treats me well otherwise i just have to learn to not react to his comments i guess because otherwise we would break up just because he insist on always being right even when he isnt
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• Philippines
11 Jan 07
Women want to be treated with respect. They want to be loved and cared for. But you should never overdo it. Too much of anything is not good. It may sound cliche but it's true. Balance things a bit... you can be respectful to woman but do crazy fun things with her at the same time. All you have to do is know your limits.
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• Pakistan
12 Jan 07
I agree with you dude... its really nice saying... don't over do it... there must be a balance....
@PaulMel (658)
• Portugal
11 Jan 07
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@tanaclark (570)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I know exactly what you are saying. I have a friend who is the nicest guy in the world he is very respectful. He is kind and gentle and very polite. He also asks me the same question. He always gets girls and they leave him and tell him that he is too nice. I as a woman told him that myself and all my friends always sit around and talk about how we want a man to treat us with respect and be nice and sweet. But in reality what we want is a man that is sweet and nice and respectful when we want them to be but we also want a bad boy that is tough so that we feel secure and safe. There is no one guy that is perfect for a woman. We just want the best of both worlds.
12 Jan 07
yeh... i donno where your gonna find a guy like that lol..
@shywolf (4514)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I definitely don't understand why a woman would leave any man who treated her right. I would give anything for a man who would want to please me. I love bringing joy to someone else and would wish for them to wish the same for me, to wake up every morning wanting to see me be happy. I would never want to leave a man who would make me feel that way! ^_^
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@cipher2004 (1183)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Sometimes when you treat a girl really well she feels that there is no challenge.Don't be mean,just be unavailable sometimes,you could say "sorry I am going out with my friend,but I'll call you later. Gina
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@blueman (16509)
• India
12 Jan 07
i do not think any women would want to be treated like trash they expect you to love and care for them and in return they love you as well. and i do not think you would expect your friend to treat you like that.
• Nigeria
11 Jan 07
Women are very emotional creatures and very sensitive to what they are been told every woman wants to be treated nicely and with some respect today but still they are lower than we men..
@wahmoftwo (1296)
• United States
12 Jan 07
Are you for real? Lower than men?
@Kscott (634)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I've heard before that people tend to marry people who are like their parents in a way....so maybe the women that you had dated, weren't treated like princess' when they were growing up and this may have felt "not right" to them. I would love to be treated like a princess....in moderation though! And as crazy as it sounds, we woman are caddy...we cant make our minds up exactly which way we want things....we want to stand up for ourselves and not be taken advantage of...but at the same time want someone to nurture us every step of the way.....its a hormone thing. I'm happy that you found a woman to have balance with....it's just a trial and error thing....LIFE!!
@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
it is very much ok to respect women and its the right thing to do. Women likes to be loved and cared but this two specifically shouldnt be done too much because for women i dont know for others but for me when its done like too much the guy look so weak and its like he losses hes masculinity and its like a discouragement. I used to feel that on my ex-bf. He love me too much as i see him, his gestures he will do almost everything. I know its very flattery guys do that but too much its not good. Women like to love them with a guy that true, romantic yet mysterious.
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@lpetges (3036)
• United States
11 Jan 07
to be honest, I really want to be treated like a queen. I don't want someone that pays no attention to me, and spends his money stupidly. like on sports, or hunting. Someone who does not have a foul mouth, and someone who opens doors for you. just a few things thats all!
• India
12 Jan 07
Yeah I think you are very much right.. though i would luv to have few more of him..lolz..
• India
12 Jan 07
hats off to you man.Dont worry you just did not find the right women who could understand you.Dont worry even I am in the same boat.I was in a relationship in whichi respected her and treated her right but it just dint work she ended up with a man just opposite of mean dont worry in due course of time you will find the miss perfect for you
• Australia
11 Jan 07
Lol, its the case of we want what we can't have. I know lots of really nice sweet guys but they seem boring to me. But the ones I that may not be entirely keen on me I like. You need a bit of both treat her nice but have a bit of mean streak in you and tease her lots.
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• United States
11 Jan 07
The male female issue since time began. What a never ending issue. Well to answer your question I was once a manizer. Then I learned that is just wrong and was based way deep down on rage. Now I know that before we are male or female we are people. And our whole idea of how a relationship should feel comes from how our "mommy or daddy" made us feel. EX; If you were always laughing with your mother but, could never talk seriously with her. You will more than likely spend the rest of your life enjoying women. All the while craveing a more serious connection. Hope that makes since to you. This is something that happens to us before the age of 5. So If you have kids remember this.
• India
12 Jan 07
i do agrre with u .
@aarkhay (73)
• India
12 Jan 07
You are right. A woman normally will say that they are in search of a guy who will treat them right. However when they meet a right guy they will keep quite and not vent their feelings. For this we need no womanizer or a romeo as this is the universal truth.
@adnanmd2 (830)
12 Jan 07
I think they really want a gud partner
• India
12 Jan 07
well your courtsy of giving ur partener a status of princess is not wrong , but it does not mean u should turn a slave for her .wen u give someone respect u also deserve d same n i never felt down by my grl in doing so
@aryaman (245)
• India
12 Jan 07
Yes its a strange but true thing. A friend of mine is a very nice person. He is very soft spoken and treat every woman with respect. But he is still single and i have not seen any woman getting attracted to him. Whereas i have seen people who are such losers and they treat women as a object and than also they manage to get girls attracted to them. I dont know the reason for this but even i have noticed this thing.
• India
12 Jan 07
respectfully!!!