is it love or lust?

June 27, 2006 6:22am CST
Hi friends, on a fine day one girl told me that she is in love with me. i have a facination of looking n talking with girls. But this was the first girl who said that she was in love with me. she came to me, talked to me day n night over phone, went to places, but at last she told me that she wants to get marry with her causin. i didnt understand what to say. one side she was saying about her love. but not to get marry. now she got married and have a baby, but still she is saying that she is in love with me. for her there was no necessary to get married with that boy, she can deny every one will agree. but she didnt, i didnt understand. i became a mental.
3 responses
@joy4you (641)
• India
10 Sep 08
It's neither love nor lust, what happened with you is fate. The girl was probably confused or maybe she had some other reasons for doing what she did. Either way be mature about the whole thing, your love is out there go look for it and might be better if you told this girl that she is married now and it would be a sin to continue loving you, she would just hurt herself and also her spouse who maybe also loves her. I know it is difficult to forget these things and they leave their mark in our lives but as cruel as life may be sometimes it goes on and we go on with it. Best of luck and happy mylotting.
@Andy77 (432)
• United States
28 Jun 06
The girl sounds pretty confused. Perhaps she had become pregnant and was looking for someone to marry her. It doesn't sound like she really loved you. There will be a girl for you. Wait, be patient, you will find her. When you do, you will want only the best for her and she will want only the best for you. Then you will be happy.
• United States
27 Jun 06
I am not therapist but I would say that she wasn't the one for you and that the love of your life is still out there for you to find, don't rush into anything. Take your time and live life each and everyday. She will come along when you least expect it.