how should i approach

India
January 11, 2007 9:06am CST
guys i am into this new job we have a receptionist,from the very first day she was special to me and i got intrested in her i am 24, i was like hooked to her when suddenly my collegues told me that she is a diviorcee and has two kids living with her huss, and thats why she keeps gettin irritated, donn know why but i like her i want her to enjoy life but am afraid to appraoch her,shes above 35 and so i think its dangerous but donno why i am hooked to her,any suggestions how i should approach her
3 responses
• India
11 Jan 07
U like her bt nt love her rite?? dat means its just an infatuation. I think before gettin too involved in her u must step bak bcoz shes divorcee and has 2 kids!! Wel, anyways its ur look out, I just said wat I feel is rite.. She wud be of course sad abt her life but u cn be her nice frnd and let her kn dat life is so beautiful and say her Life can begin at any moment. Dont try to impress her just be cool and very important is show ur MATURITY as much as u can. Say less and do more bcoz shes matured, she doesnt require any explanation, ur feelings ll reach her automatically. Secondly, just give her a hint dat i dun ve any problem to ve a relationship wid u. And currently I am nt in relationship wid any1.... All the best dude...
@Phlamingho (7833)
• Denmark
11 Jan 07
I'm 23 so I can sort of relate :-) If it was me I don't think I would approach this woman. I wouldn't want to get caught up in this whole ex-husbond / children fight. But if you can live with this then go for it :-) Your post dosen't really tell if she likes you back?
@Kalachia (231)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Start out as friends. You'll never know if you're first instincts about her are true unless you start out a bit slow in the beginning.