Just read and tell me what you think about this whole thing.

United States
January 11, 2007 2:38pm CST
me and this guys were like friends for benefits for about two years.i got pregnant 2005.i told him i was pregnant he said it wasnt his.i was so mad at him that i didnt really talk to him through out the pregnacy(i know that was wrong).i called him the day i gave birth.he still insist that the baby aint his even after he brought a friend to see.his friend said yes the baby is his b/c my baby didnt even look like me at all.maybe the eyes only.any ways,when i took the baby home he saw the baby everday for about two weeks.but when he ask for DNA of course i didnt haste one bit.it turn out it was his baby.he stopped seeing the baby everyday.it went from everyday to once or even two weeks.even his godparents see him more then he did(and they have their own busy life).its sad how hes not taking the baby serious.i just want to move with my sister to washington and forget about,but i dont want to do that to my son.its just so hard esp b/c i moved back w/my parents and i am not working yet.he did give money for the baby but thats enough for my son.then when thanksgiving and christmas came around he didnt even call nor see the baby.its like he dont care about the baby.just about the child support.making sure i dont put him on child support b/c one day i mention about child support he went crazy.he just told me he will take me to court and take the baby away from me.what should i do? or what do you think about it?
2 responses
11 Jan 07
I think you should move in with your sister and forget about this man -- he hasn't done anything for you, and he doesn't want the responsibility for your child. Go on child benefits -- he has no grounds to take the child away from you in court, considering he barely even sees it!
@puma_nz (1001)
• New Zealand
11 Jan 07
"HIM" not IT..
• United States
11 Jan 07
thanks for your advice.i rwally appreciated.
@puma_nz (1001)
• New Zealand
11 Jan 07
If it were me I would move on with my life.. It sounds like this guy doesnt want to be apart of your Baby's Life *CREEP!* Its his loss... seriously.. He has no idea what he's missing out on and he will later regret it. Your Son is Happy with you.. just let him enjoy you as his Mummy and make the most of it while you have the chance. If he starts making threats about taking baby off you then his chances of getting anywhere at all are extremely THIN!
• United States
11 Jan 07
thanks for advice i really appreciated.