sons 1st birthday

United States
January 11, 2007 11:07pm CST
so my son's first birthday is comming up in april and my husband has a very large family like 50 people on both sides.which seems to keep on growing my thing is noones house is big enough for all of them but i want to host it at my house.my thing is should i have two seperate birthdays or just one?we had one for my daughter and it was so crowded up in my house and we could barely move but,im not sure if i want to have to seperate birthdays for the family.what would you suggest?
5 responses
• India
12 Jan 07
The birthdays comes once in a year, just celebrate with all the family and relatives and adjust to make the birthday more memorable. Enjoy this function with all the relatives.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
12 Jan 07
i think you should call them at different times .hire a outside help otherwise it will be too heavy on you.
@Darkwing (21583)
12 Jan 07
I would make it a come when you please affair. If you stipulate that you will have an open house from say 12 noon until 5 p.m. and they're welcome to drop in whatever time they like to, then you may be able to thin out the traffic at any one time. That way, everybody can visit at their convenience, give their good wishes to your son, eat a little and have a drink and a chat, and then be on their way, without feeling they're tied to a crowded house for a number of hours. My family have done this often, and it works really well. I hope the suggestion helps. Good luck, and Happy Birthday when it gets here little fella!!! :-)
• India
12 Jan 07
Your question is not clear.You say that your daughters b'day is already over and you say you you want to celebrate both the B'days at a time.Please be clear so that we can give an idea.
• India
12 Jan 07
You can have a one birthday.Because it is easy to have the crowd at only once.If u have two then there will be two times you have to face the crowd.