Cheated and Confused!?
January 12, 2007 7:21pm CST
I have this friend who cheated on her boyfriend and he does not know. She said it was at the beginning of thier relationship like less than a month and she was a little boozed from drinking. It was the time when she and her boyfriend was on a big fight. It was the time when they were not talking to each other. She went out and had a couple of drinks. She flirted with another guy and then went to the guy's house. When they were in front of the main door the guy grabbed her and kissed her. At that time, my friend said that she kissed him back. Then she remembered what her boyfriend told her, if she ever cheated, he would be so hurt. So she left the other guy and went home. But now, she does not know what to do. The day after, she told her boyfriend to start over regardless of the past mistakes and regrets. It has now been 3 months after all this happened but my friend says that she keeps on thinking about that night. She said that she does not want to lose him and hurt him coz he is the only guy she ever fell inlove with. My friend is asking me for help and advice but I do not want her to feel worse than she already is. I told her, if I was her boyfriend, I would want to know and I have the right to know even if it hurts.
13 Jan 07
I think you're right. What happened was not that bad, she only kissed with a guy. Also, she was angry and drunk so that's what caused her to do it. I'm not saying that being drunk excuses you from doing a bad thing like cheating. It's just that she's only human and is prone to make mistakes. Tell her to tell him and if his boyfriend really loves her, he should understand her. If she doesn't tell him, she will always feel guilty about it.
13 Jan 07
I have told her the same things. Her boyfriend will understand if he really loves her. She has done some bad things but she is only human. She makes mistakes and can be tempted. But, if she told her exactly what happened that night. I believe her boyfriend will understand. I know I would.