which one- love marriage or arrange marriage????????

India
January 13, 2007 1:44am CST
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@starboy (119)
• Pakistan
13 Jan 07
mine say is arrange marraige,cuz love is better before marraige,but after marraige all the feelings of love start dying day by day so i wud prefer to get arrange marraige,and its depends on u that whom u select for marraige in arrange marraige.
• India
13 Jan 07
I have left this matter on my parents. I would prefer arrange marriage. Problem have in both the marriages. Respect is more in arrange marriage. Love marriage is a result of friendship. When friendship deepens it ends into marriage. There is less respect between couple in love marriage.
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
I'll go for marriage with love than just a pure arrangeent. Love is very essetial in marrying someone. It is something that matters most in order to survive the marriage for life.
• India
13 Jan 07
Well, i will go for Arrange Marriage. because if i go for love marriage and if my partner is not trustworthy, then the entire family will blame me for that. while in case of arrange marriage, i can blame my family members.
@aryaman (245)
• India
13 Jan 07
I think it depends on the person whether he prefers arrange marriage or love marriage. I would prefer love marriage. I have nothing against arrange marriage but i find it difficult that how can two people who barely know each other decide to marry just spending sometime with each other. For a marriage both the persons should know each other, but in case of arrange marriage when people meet they are at their best behaviour. How can v expect them to be the way they behave because both of them are pretending. I think it may have worked in past but its difficult that it will continue to work. In case of love marriage both the girl and boy are the way they are. They spend time with each other without any pressure and sooner or later both of them know the true nature of each other. this will help them take decision about whether to marry the other person or not. So i would prefer love marriage.
• India
13 Jan 07
if you love someone and get chance to marry with him so do love marriage otherwise arrange marriage is batter.
• Canada
13 Jan 07
I definitely want to get married out of LOVE. I don't want someone to pick my partner for me. They may know me well, but no one knows what I want as well as I do. I know what I want in a partner, and no one else can possibly choose him for me, as well as I can.