"Marriages are made in heaven" Whats ur say??

marriages are made in heaven?? - marriages
India
January 13, 2007 8:02am CST
Every now and then we get to hear that marriages are made in heaven...But we still have divorces !! do u believe in this saying while u live in this modern world?? If this was true why do we have divorce?? Why dont we live happily together ?? Do u really believe that god made up each ones pair in the heaven itsself and its just that we switch over partners just the find that right one god has made for us??? Why does one say after a past relationship that maybe he/she wasnt made for me?? I still do believe in these lines whether it maybe a myth ..what do u feel do u feel teh same way or u disagree to me?? thanx for reading and responding!!
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• India
13 Jan 07
marriages are made in heaven thats for sure how much ever u try the pair whichs already made when they meet they unite and whatever dreams u ve dreamt will b fullfilled
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• Pakistan
13 Jan 07
marriages are made in heaven..........everyone agrees
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• Malaysia
14 Jan 07
Marriages are made in heaven , but some are made in hell..
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• United States
14 Jan 07
Marriage is from God and it's left up to us to make it or break it.
• Indonesia
13 Jan 07
i don't believe that marriages are made in heaven, but i do believe that God's plan allow us to meet every single person that we've meet till today. Thus we have free will, and obligate to be responsible with our choices. responsible to god and to others and to ourselves.
• India
13 Jan 07
i respect ur worthy opinion but why do people then say after a "not so sucessful" relationship that maybe god had something better in store therefore thsi one was not as successful as expected
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@yorgaki (678)
• Romania
14 Jan 07
cuteangel, please just read my answer - it is somewhere at the last pages - and you will understand better the truth and not wasting your time with "trials" and "opinions" about such a delicate matter ...
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• India
13 Jan 07
Marriages are made in heaven, yes, but only when a pair lives happily and successfully. Marriages are made in hell, when the relationship between a husband and wife goes awry. It changes according to the situation one finds himself or herself. It's all in the mind.
@yorgaki (678)
• Romania
14 Jan 07
sorry, that happens only he wants just her p***y or she wants just his pocket and nothing else. Only in these situations their marriage is like in hell ! Because it is a common house shared by 2 strangers and enemies glued in a bad deal for both of them !
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@stonehr (818)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Jan 07
Of course marriages are made in heaven, how long times you can go from one relationship to another one.Why? Because everytime you feel this is not person for You.And then finally when You found your lovely person You'll feel like you are in heaven with your lovely person. I didn't yet have relationship with woman from heaven, so I hope I'll meet her one day. Till that day I can only pray to God to show me the way to my lovely woman from heaven...
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• India
13 Jan 07
maybe cant say if they are so then there will be no divorse so i think they are not
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@ahsan15 (334)
• India
13 Jan 07
i agree with you!
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@Equinoxx (187)
• Ireland
14 Jan 07
Yes, marriages are made in heaven but reality dawns upon as as soon as life's issues start and we land with a thud on the earth from heaven. I blame it on material aspirations of men and women.
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@vanities (11387)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Jan 07
yes marriages are made in heaven ..isnt not??how can you described the first night and the honeymoon stage of your married life?? isnt it not heaven then..?? its only the couple who turned it into hell ...lack of understanding to each others and so on and so forth...mine is ok...were still together have some minor problems but we were able to patch it up always..so i consider it still made in heaven...coz were still together for 25 yrs despite of the fact that we married early im 18 and hes 26 during that time..
• United States
14 Jan 07
i dont believe it is true, well...yes there are some couples that are perfect-match-made-in-heaven-people, but nobody really waits for that match to come along. everyone is in a hurry and doesnt wait to REALLY get to know the person they "truely love". everyone needs to ask all the questions about family, money and all that. most marriages do end because of money. look into their past history and talk. ♣
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• India
14 Jan 07
marriages are made in marriage halls i know only that
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@jaizdeep (397)
• India
13 Jan 07
yeah i agree to u completely that marriages are made in heaven...For Me the almighty decides everything everything that happens in my life..We are just puppets and bound to do what is meant for us... But i just dont know we still dare to go against it we still wanna love some one we still wanna marry someone just believing that this is the one made for me maybe this is the one god selected for me We can go on with this statement iff we get to marry the person we love if we are happy with the person we marry then surely god has paired us up in heaven and we aint a mismatch
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
I agree with you! in roman catholic, it is a sacrament. it is by god.
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@niitesh (1656)
• India
13 Jan 07
well marriages are made in hell so be practical for seldom we see successful marriages
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@ladygator (3469)
• United States
13 Jan 07
I think that marriages are made in heaven its just that if you dont put it in heaven on earth you cant utilize this theory. I get so angry at times w/my husb but he is who he is I just work to make my husb happy and know that he loves me to the fullest caapacity that he knows how. Many times the vows are not taked for what they really are. FOR BETTER OR WORSE, cuz YES there will be worse FOR RICHER OR POORER and we have lived the majority of ours poor so far financially. The riches are in our hearts and our dedication to what our marriage stands for. Its not all about me and no matter what as long as I put it in Gods hands and dont take it into mine to try to "fix" things everything always works out. So you can put me on the list of those that have a marriage made in heaven, as I believe it was preordained there first
@fatling (16)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I don't believe in God or fate, but I think that some couples are just more compatible than others. Often people get married too soon, before they realize that they can't stand living with this person for the rest of their life. In fact, marriage seems like a bit of an odd custom when you strip it of its religious and cultural significance, and consider humans as just another species on this planet. But I'm looking at it through a different lens than you are.
• China
14 Jan 07
good comments.:)
• Singapore
14 Jan 07
Marriages may be made in heaven but in today's society, due to financial independent, multi-tasking, pressure at work, globalisation, pressure to do better than your peers, etc.. causing one to be short tempered. Husbands and wives take things for granted. They have forgoten to appreciate each other; which is sad.
• China
14 Jan 07
So i think marriages are not controlled by God,but controlled by husbands n wives,even sometimes by the circumstances.
@yrteja (651)
• India
14 Jan 07
yes.we cant decide the marriages on our wish and it happens with the people who was decided by god.
• United States
24 Jan 07
yes, because HE made us to be attracted to a certain kind of being. and one of them would be our future true love.
@tibzoy (110)
• Philippines
14 Jan 07
Mythologically speaking, that is true. That's why a person is made to believe that one has a soulmate out there to find. Yet, I think it's really up to us. If one had been careful and not hasty enough to marry, meaning to say, a test for compatibility, then I guess a marriage will last. Also, people nowadays think differently--almost anything is disposable just like a can of soda. Do humans still deeply value relationships?
• Australia
14 Jan 07
I think you've hit the nail on the head. People rush into marriage too hastily. Divorce is about people no longer valuing relationships and working at keeping them together.
• Romania
13 Jan 07
excuse me for breaking your dream but this is the real world honney.I have never heard of families living happy,without fights and problems.I don't know what is happening but marriage is not what it's supposed to be,maybe the opposite...
@Hrishi86 (676)
• India
27 Dec 07
No!! I don't think so. It happens only by us. There is no heaven no hell whereas I think
@olaff123 (434)
• Namibia
25 Dec 07
I really don't have any trust in Heaven's ability to make marriages, because most of them fail. Shouldn't we get a more reliable company with a better track record in production to take over this function? I won't recommend Microsoft, but wouldn't mind to have a Mercedes Benz marriage - I've got a '94 model that still runs perfectly, without hickups.