Help! I know my best friends boyfriend is cheating on her.How can I TELL

@berry9 (587)
India
January 14, 2007 2:00am CST
my best friend's boyfriend is cheating on her I know.his friend told me too.But Im scared to tell this to my friend.I dont know how she will react.would she believe me?I happened to tell her earlier that I dont believe in love and lovers as its all just a way to fool one another.So now if I tell her this,she might think that Im just trying to break her relationship with that person.What do I do?
7 responses
@rsp9098 (755)
• India
15 Jan 07
as a friend,u hav to help ans save her life from that cheat!if hez cheating then u should let her know!she maite misunderstand u first but now her life is much more important then urz...let her knoe,tell her!
@mishang (501)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
i think as a friend, you really should tell it to her, of course for now, they will see you as villain on their love story but that's a duty of becoming a friend, she already have a cheating and dishonest guy so do you still want her to have a dishonest friend? it's not about how she's gonna be reacting but this is about you and your concern for her, your friend, or the question comes down to this, do you really want your friend to be hurt? if she doesn't want to believe then loosen it up, atleast you have done your part on looking after her. good luck!
• Nigeria
15 Jan 07
You should not tell your friend directly but let her know indirectly that she has to be watchful by telling various stories about how men cheats on their girlfriends even when the girlfriend has sacrificed a lot for them and if you have proof,you can send it through a third party.Please,look for a proof.
• Nigeria
15 Jan 07
You should not tell your friend directly but let her know indirectly that she has to be watchful by telling various stories about how men cheats on their girlfriends even when the girlfriend has sacrificed a lot for them.
@jenbatres (800)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I think you need to tell your friend what you know. If she knew your partner was cheating on you, you would want her to tell you. Even if she doesn't believe you or gets angry she will get over it -- that is waht best friends are for.
• Iraq
15 Jan 07
Even though she gets upset. If she is your friend, she will listen to you. But you have to be sure. Set something up that will bring all of you together. Catch him in the act. So she can see herself. Good hunting
• India
14 Jan 07
well u should give her sume proof, after thn may be she will believe on u or gt u rite..