Open Marriage

@leeoz22 (183)
Australia
October 4, 2006 2:21am CST
Do you agree with an open marriage? My friend has one and I dont think I would like it.
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@prasanta (1948)
• India
4 Oct 06
What is meant by 'Open Marriage?
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@leeoz22 (183)
• Australia
4 Oct 06
Where you are married but both partners agree it is ok to have other relationships. I dont think I could do it.
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@prasanta (1948)
• India
4 Oct 06
No, I do not agree with this. If it is a faithful group (limited members,say 10 males and 10 females)then it can be accepted. However, totally open means (as I understand)multiple partnership. That will not tie up the members. More diseased children will be produced and all the group members will be at high risk of poor health. I won't support that.
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• United States
4 Oct 06
I don't think I could do it either. We barely have enough time with each other now how would we manage other relationships!Plus it brings all kinds of other worries into the marriage such as STDs and possible kids!
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@acdc0805 (979)
• United States
4 Oct 06
I do, tends to make things easier. I wouldn't consider my marriage a complete "open" marriage, but its pretty darn close.
@leeoz22 (183)
• Australia
4 Oct 06
And do you find it works for you?
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
4 Oct 06
I dont agree with it because I believe that marriage is all about devoting your love and heart to one person! I feel that if someone is truely in love with their spouse they wouldnt WANT to be with anyone else! I also couldnt handle my spouse being with other women! That would be too much for me to handle. I think open marriages are a way for people to "have their cake and eat it, too". What is the point of getting married if you are going to be with other people?
@leeoz22 (183)
• Australia
4 Oct 06
I agree with you. I dont know how my friend does it. Why do you get married in the first place if you want an open marriage? You should stay single and stop hurting people.
• United States
4 Oct 06
I couldn't have an open marriage. You should just be single then do whatever you want. Even if it's an open marriage I believe that feelings and emotions are still involved and arguments will occur still. I would never consent to an open marriage nor would my husband. Does your friend like his/her open marriage?
@leeoz22 (183)
• Australia
4 Oct 06
Thats the thing yes, her and her husband do.....But I suppose we are all entitled to our own lifes. I just worry about her and dont understand how she coud do it
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
31 Dec 06
No, I don't agree with open marriages. Wouldn't this defeat the purpose of getting married in the first place? I might as well stay single if I cannot be commited to one person.
@jal1948 (1359)
• India
9 Jul 07
who are we to judge others likes and dislikes, each one to their own way of thinking and doing and god for all
@van123 (1287)
• India
5 Oct 06
never
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I think that some people think this is the ultimate trust and that it will strengthen there relationship. I think it makes the relationship less than a warm loving family one. Adultery and Fornication are Sins for christians and will destroy family as they have throughout history
@pranavoip (191)
• India
7 Nov 06
what is an open marriage.heard the term first time
• India
26 Dec 06
I accept ur questions.
@vinaykant (812)
• India
1 Dec 06
i think if two person raedy for it then who we are to say any thing. well if my partner will ready for it then i dont havany problem.
@hanadoku (48)
• United States
11 Dec 06
It depends on the type of people you are. I currently have an open relationship with my boyfriend and when I do get married, I plan to have an open marriage. It is less stressful for me, since I don't have to worry if my boyfriend is cheating with me. And I have been dating him for three years. But the thing is that we both are very honest with each other. Some people would not be able to have any form of an open relationship, marriage or not, since they could get jealous real easily. But, hey, each to their own.
@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
31 Dec 06
yeah i don't like it too lol. it's not good.
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
23 Dec 06
If both partner agree before getting married, they is there lifestyle than thats ok for them. Technically, i don't see why they need to get married in order to swing. Doesn't make since.
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
5 Oct 06
I know a few with an open marriage...some have rules some don't. i guess it is rally up to to what you are comfortable with...I think it also takes a lot of maturity to avoid any jealousy issues.
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
4 Oct 06
I would definatly not like that, I don't think you should be with anyone else, after all you took vows to honor your spouse.
• United States
5 Oct 06
No, I could not be in an open relationship. I am too jealous of a person. In the back of my mind I would always be wondering if he really preferred the other person over me. It would be a jealous power struggle. Sounds like it would be an ugly situation. Whoever opts for this type of relationship, has to be either extremely self confident or severely desperate to have anyone that would accept them.
• India
5 Oct 06
some people have open marriages but in a very limited and closed group.like 3 or 4 married couples.they enjoy a lot too.go to movie together,go onto a picnic,get together in their respective homes and even sharing bed together all of then in night.these thing happen but very few are able to manage it smoothly.but those who can manage no doubt enjoy much.it depend on individual.why should I be judgemental.i am not a judge.
@netizen (534)
• India
5 Oct 06
It is not accepted buy the society in India. We have one for one policy. This open marriage system definitely makes culture deterioration and leads to collapse everything.
@crystalc (289)
• United States
4 Oct 06
I think that if both people are okay with it that there is nothing wrong with it. It can be rewarding for some. I don't think an open marrige is for every one. But I can imagine that it could be fun.