Why does Men can't say "I LOVE YOU" to the one that they loved

Philippines
January 14, 2007 10:32pm CST
There are many causes. But I really can't think one can give me an idea on waht are those cause my friend.
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10 responses
Bhutto
@Bhutto (741)
• India
17 Jan 07
They are nervous and frighten to say these words because if incase she ignores or say i dont love,they can't handle this on face that is the reason i feel.
alagiri
@alagiri (79)
• India
17 Jan 07
first u must undes tand her it wi be easy to say i love u!!!!1111
pusiket
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
It really depends on the kind of men you are talking about. There are really some men who finds it hard to utter in words how they feel but there are some who are very vocal and showy.
harris24982
@harris24982 (530)
•
15 Jan 07
i think alot of the trouble for men saying i love you is the fear of being rejected or laughed at opening up and saying the words i love you for the first time leaves you in a very strange position if you get rejected
mishang
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
it's because compared to girls, men ar less vocal and expressive with what they want and with their feelings. they have this ego, so if they want or feel something for someone, they just hide it for quite sometime because they are afriad that they will be rejected hence losing their battle with their own ego.
rovenn
@rovenn (69)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
i could state a few reasons; it could be they afraid of rejection, they are simply shy or men prefer to do things to show their love and affection, rather than to say it.
danishcanadian
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
15 Jan 07
I really don't understand this either. My Sweetheart has no problem saying "I Love You" to me. I don't worry about other men saying it, because he is the only one who matters to me. You do have a point though. If a person really loves another person, it should not be hard to say I Love You. I always say it to him too, of course. When one of us says it first, the other always replied "I love you too" and we mean it when we say it.
jenbatres
@jenbatres (799)
• United States
15 Jan 07
My man tells me many times a day that he loves me. He also does things to let me know he loves me; he helps with the housecleaning, kids, and gives me massages. Maybe a man can't say that he loves someone because, he doesn't know if he loves the person. best of luck
jenbatres
@jenbatres (799)
• United States
15 Jan 07
My man tells me many times a day that he loves me. He also does things to let me know he loves me; he helps with the housecleaning, kids, and gives me massages. Maybe a man can't say that he loves someone because, he doesn't know if he loves the person. best of luck
bev_arch_20
@bev_arch_20 (842)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
they're afraid of the response.