I Have Fallen In Love With My Best Friend...
January 16, 2007 12:42am CST
I love a girl in my college who is my best friend. I am thinking to propose her but I fear I may lose our friendship. I don't want to lose her. How should I propose her that if she says no also, our friendship shouldn't break. Have ever anybody of you faced such situation? If you would be at my place what would you do?
16 Jan 07
Well you cannot go without knowing at all. You cannot have the what ifs so you have to fess up to her. Tell her that as much as it will hurt for her to say no that you want what is in her interests as well. Let her no that if she says no that your friendship will still conmtinue and that you want her in your life regardless!
2 Feb 07
Express your true feelings now. You should take the risk associated with being in love with your best friend. Come to think of it, if you wont confess your feelings for fear of being rejected and losing your friendship, you will forever keep that feeling within yourself. She will not know it, and what if she likes you too. How will you know that she likes you if you won’t court her?