Are people born gay?

@rlporter (516)
United States
October 4, 2006 1:22pm CST
I'm not a racist or trying to be judgemental, just curious. I don't understand why some gay men are very flamboyant and feminine.
18 responses
@joycess (43)
• United States
5 Oct 06
no,it a devil work.
@rlporter (516)
• United States
5 Oct 06
I totally agree. I don't get how some gays also claim to be Believers. Isn't that a total contradiction?
• Singapore
8 Oct 06
I totally disagree. I don't see what sexuality has to do with religion. This is out of topic anyway.
@rlporter (516)
• United States
9 Oct 06
It has to do w/ "religion" b/c of our Creator, God, and His will for us.
@eladmj (127)
• United States
5 Oct 06
I think they are born gay, because who would wan to go thru all of the criticism
@eladmj (127)
• United States
7 Oct 06
I was in the army for 20 years and I knew a lot of people male and female that was gay, and we just never spoke of it, but they were really nice and so I pass no judgement,
@perkelvin (265)
• Nigeria
4 Oct 06
men are not born gay .homosexualism is the devils srategy to win more soul to hell
@rlporter (516)
• United States
4 Oct 06
I do agree with that. I'm a Christian, so I don't agree with homosexuality but I don' want to judge anyone either. I never understood how they say "they've always known."
@Brooke3 (614)
5 Oct 06
Havent you always known you were not gay?
@bblessed (1822)
• United States
8 Oct 06
NO
@rlporter (516)
• United States
9 Oct 06
Thanks for your opinion too.
@psmohan (1883)
• India
7 Oct 06
People not born gay. They become gay
@rlporter (516)
• United States
9 Oct 06
Thanks!
7 Oct 06
i dont think people are born gay! lol. LIke a baby isn't born loving teh colour grey. I think it depends on there life, personality and what has happened to them and the way they want to view themselves and the way for reaching there own statement about them. (sorry if i offened anyone)
@rlporter (516)
• United States
9 Oct 06
I agree with you. Thanks for your response.
@van123 (1288)
• India
5 Oct 06
no
@rlporter (516)
• United States
5 Oct 06
I don't think so either, but I really want to know why *some* act so flamboyant. It's ridiculous. The voice changes, the mannerisms, everything. Those kind of gay people drive me crazy!!!!
• India
22 Oct 06
no
@brett80 (190)
• Australia
5 Oct 06
I have been told by a reliable source that being gay can be attributed to the amount of testosterone a fetus recieves. It went like this, if a "normal" male is supposed to recieve 4 units of testosterone, 1 unit is used to form the testies the other 3 are used in the brain.If thr fetus is sort changed and recieves 3 units then 1 goes to the genitals and 2 to the brain Giving a predominantly wale brain with some female caricteristics. If however the fetus recieves 2 or 1 unit the same amount is used to rorm the testies but the brain does not recieve enough to be male and the fetus is left with male genitals but a predominantly female brain. No wonder most gay people say that they grow up confused. I believe that being gay has more to do with brain function than anything else. Personaly i am glad for the increase int the number af gay people. Means more women for the rest of us.
• United States
5 Oct 06
nope
• India
5 Oct 06
no..it's their thinking whcih gays are formed
@code_11 (902)
• Nigeria
5 Oct 06
i don't think people are born gay, i think its all about orientation.
@KisaMommy (133)
• United States
5 Oct 06
You are.. born the way you are.. Gay, not gay.. doesnt matter.. you are born... and it is already determined if you will be tall or short, blonde or brunette, brown eyed, green eyed, blue eyed ect.. It's all in there.. someplace.. It's not for use to judge how someone else is.. If they do not harm you in any way (aside from stealing "male prospects" from lonely women) why should YOU care how they are at all? it is THEIR life they are living, NOT yours
@Brooke3 (614)
5 Oct 06
Yes they are. Why would anyone choose to be part of a group that makes them more likely to die young and that a lot of people hate?
@Mwanza1 (345)
• Kenya
5 Oct 06
No they are not born gay but it is a choise one makes
• United States
5 Oct 06
yep, sure are
@skittlez353 (1404)
• United States
4 Oct 06
No, because look how big tha Gay society is now, compared to ten and twenty years ago. It`s our society that is making people more prone to turning Gay. When you are born, you are not into boys or girls. You just grow up around them and learn what you like. Usually guys don`t become Gay until they are in their teenagers. They realize they`re not into girls, like all their other friends and start to experiment with guys.
@Aali311 (6127)
• United States
4 Oct 06
I think maybe they are, I'm not sure how people become gay but who are we to judge.