After being married/engaged for a while, do you start feeling unattractive??

United States
January 16, 2007 9:41am CST
I've been with my fiance for 3.5 years now, and in all honesty I feel like 150% less attractive than I did when I met him. He is still as attractive, but I feel that I have gained weight, my complection got worst... it could be in my head Im not really sure. Does this happen? Is it normal to feel unattractive after a while??
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• India
27 Jan 07
i am not married at present,but if i am married i would never feel unattractive.
• United States
27 Jan 07
Not really. We have been together 7 years. We both gained a lot of weight... but he lost 100 pounds and I've lost 24. I still have at least 30 more to go. But I only feel unattractive sometimes...(when I can't find anything to wear or feel bloated). He is good about telling me I look good every day.
@raveena (1357)
• India
16 Jan 07
Has your fiance told you anytime that you are unattractive if no then why do you feel that way. I have been married for 15 years and even today my hubby comes running back home infact all his friends tease him saying that what is there at home. I was 40 kgs when I was married and now I am 65kgs but still when he loves me I feel that he is loving me for the first time. People say that are you'll recently married and do not believe if I say we are married for the last 15 years. Beauty lies in the eyes of the Beholder
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
i've been married for over 10 years now and yeah, im feeling kinda unattractive to other people but for the eyes of my wife, im still ok. IMO attractiveness is not only physical but what's important is how you feel for each other.