How to get even?

@katenkim (240)
Singapore
January 16, 2007 10:56pm CST
I'm not a revengeful person but lately I just want to get even. I boyfriend has been cheating on me and I want to really get even but I don'y want to cheat. Is there anyways I could do to get even but not cheating if you know what I mean.
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3 responses
@superbren (859)
17 Jan 07
i think if you feel this bad you are hurting a lot, it wont make any difference iof you get revenge or not , you will still be able to see his unfaithfulness in your mind , have you considered speaking to a counsellor about it . it will get rid of the anger you are carrying . then if he is unfaithful again dump him , that should be revenge enough.
• United States
17 Jan 07
You don't get even with a cheater you leave them. I guess I do not understand your thoughts on this. Why would you want to put up with someone who obviously does not care about you in the same way that you care for him. You will never find the revenge in which you seek. Revenge is never sweet and will get you know where. Step back and see if he is really what you want.
@lauriefnp (5112)
• United States
17 Jan 07
Dump him and get it over with. He's obviously not worth your time and love. I know that you must be hurt and angry, as you should be. But revenge won't really help in the long run, and you're right that cheating yourself is not an answer. Just think of the boost to your self-esteem if you stand up for yourself, tell yourself that you deserve better, and dump him. They say that success is the best revenge. Do something that makes you a better, happier person. Join a gym, get a makeover, do something for yourself.