People that blame others fortheir own wrongdoings.

@mdilan (803)
United States
January 16, 2007 11:20pm CST
Do you know someone that has blamed you for something he or she did? For example, loosing his or her keys, etc? Isn't that annoying?
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@jotace (2094)
• Spain
30 Jan 07
Yes, I know several people who blame others for their own faults. I think it's much more common than it should be. It can either be directly "this has happened because of you" even when they know that you have nothing to do with the problem, or when you are telling them something that they have done wrong, they defend themselves nervous, sometimes shouting, and telling that you have made badly that thing or another. I don't understand how they can say things like that, because they are normal people, I think it's like a method of defense.
@lafavorito (2970)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
It's a sign of immaturity and bitterness, my mom is an example of this. She blamed me for all the unfortunate events that happened to her since I was born.
• Indonesia
26 Jan 07
I know a lot of people who's doing this sometime to me. I can even name them; from my mom, dad, brother, sisters, mostly family. When friends are doing that to me, I tend to ignore; for I always think I it's not really worth my time to talk about it. Yes, this so called behavior is totally annoying. However, since the pattern has been going on like this over the years; I learn to accept, that people's way of dealing things are differently. Everyone wants to find escape goats if they can (most of the time).
• Canada
25 Jan 07
Ugh my husband does this to me all the time . He can never remember where he laid down anything and is always saying if I would leave things alone he would be able to find them . Truth is if I move it , it is only to put it where it belongs so if he would go look there first he would never have to ask where it was .
• United States
24 Jan 07
I know many people like that. It is because they are immature, and cannot accept responsability for their mistakes. And yes, it is very annoying.