Where does the love gets lost after marriage?????????????????????

India
January 17, 2007 7:41am CST
I wanna know why do people stop loving their spouse after marriage. What are the reasons behind this silly behaviour? Do people get bored with same person?? What Do u have on ur mind???
5 responses
@gemini13 (333)
• India
17 Jan 07
i haven't lost love for him it depends on u how much u care for him inspite of loosing some part of my life after my marraige i still love him coz for me he is the most important thing in this whole world if u really love someone ....u can never loose the love never ever
• Canada
17 Jan 07
i agree with you gemini13. i also love my husband with all my heart.. i think life become more busy so that you feel everything in routine.. but if you feel then you see love is always at first place...
@akumei1269 (1750)
• India
17 Jan 07
The cloud of responsibility on one hand and the familiarity on the other leaves nothing to explore in the spouse . The excitment withers .Topics of discussion between the two diminishes . On top of these the expectations of premarriage days seems difficult to achieve . The spouse looks weaker that fantacised once . Where is the palce for love between the two?
@amafrias (456)
• United States
17 Jan 07
I don't think most fall out of love, just lust. People tend to let themselves fall into a rut while going about their daily routines and such. They forget to keep the communicatio alive, and the romance. It is very difficult to remember to do. Also people give up way to easy these days. It is suppose to be through good and bad, and people tend to run at the first sign of trouble. We have to remember our spouses needs and feelings. We tend to think about ourselves alot, and need to put their feelings into play also. Try to romance your spouse, send little letters, set aside a time for talking one on one each day...It is work to keep love alive. It has to grow each day into a lasting lovong relationship, it does not start out that way.
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
there are so many factors why some people fall out of love. love is developed and anybody can forget that feeling whenever us human, gets hurt and whenever anger controls our feelings.
• India
17 Jan 07
well i think the husband gets fed up of looking at the same woman all the day so it finally results in the loss of love towards her wife..and also there are many fights between them on small small reasons this also leads to loss of love