What would you do?

My ex was cheating on me and all our friends knew about it. While I was at work at nights he would have her spend the night. They all knew and never said a word about it. They knew I was suspicous and asked them and they said they didnt know a thing. The reason after I found out about it that they didnt say anything is that they didnt want to get involved. Well in my opinion if they were runnin around with them while I was at work they got themselves involved. I was always faithful. I did feel like a fool but he in the end was the bigger fool. She really wasnt worth it because he lost all he had. He no longer got to spend every night with him children. He had to support her because she didnt work and I always worked. I think in the end I got the better deal.

I'm so sorry and understand your pain. To tell you the truth it all depends on how you want to handle it. I myself was sick of hearing what a wonderful woman I was and I love you all the time, only to find out that he was seeing a mutual friend. For years. Right under my nose. I can't really post much of what I did, I did get even and ruined him and her. They're not together anymore and he's always lurking around trying to get his pretty kitty to take him back. Well, this kitty won't. Everyone always knows. No one has the guts to tell you for many reasons. One of which is the teller becomes the bad guy and loses your friendship somehow down the line. Down the street, how nice. There's much you can do, but so much more is needed. If you're not back together by now then you need to take stock in yourself, Make that infamous list of pos and cons, what's important to him and not. You'll get ideas just from that list. I did.

Feeling so bad and hurt deeply which I think wouldn't be forget the rest of my life if I really facing the case like that and I think I will really need someone that can give me some support in order not to get mad till I lost control.Anyway I really ther's someone at your side to help you get through a this moments and after you can calm down I think the only choice would be divorce to prevent you from further hurt in future. I f e can do it once I am sure he will it again.

oww, thats a nasty one. I'm sure I'd feel terribly hurt, but as to what teh right thing to do is, there will be all sorts of other factors that would influence that decision