Love What Are You?

United States
January 17, 2007 4:33pm CST
It's been a long time since I keep thinking of the same thing. In every relationship there's always a constant obstacles, women usually when in a relationship specially the first time. They tend to give it all, commit everything, lost they're own identity and do the impossible to make there partner happy and the relationship work. Even when they know it's time to let go, they still hang on. Even though the love they felt faded away in time the're still around. They wait for a day that a bomb of reality stick it to their face - It's Over. So in that moment, it's a tragedy and shattering. In time, a Broken Heart Heals, but the Scars are still there. So my Question is How will you handle the upcoming relationships that is coming your way? Would you be like the first time - 100% Trust in Love and same intensity of Loving? Or would you rather be in a safe, comfort mode and just give it 50% of what you have in your heart? How will you know if that person is the one? And how will you know if the new relationship is the one for you or not? Oh LOVE, your very confussing!!!
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@nawaab (168)
• India
31 Jan 07
Hii lovely .. well this seems to be one of the most serious and moreover sensible topic for discussion ..that is why I already rated it positive. Anwayz coming to the point .. I would like to say initially one should not give 100 % ..in the sense one should not rust blindly ..and later when you become sure that you are in touch with right person ..go ahead and love him/her beyond limits . Becoz what happens mostly is this that people keep doubting for long period of time and when their beloved one is no more with them they repent ..so better to to decide our priorities ..what are you looking for in your partner and then act accordingly . Love is never conditional .. You can love someone but you should never take it as a contract .. actually this it too sensitive a issue to explain by just writing.. Anyways congratulations again for such a nice topic .. tc bbye