photography help carrer decision!

United States
January 17, 2007 7:36pm CST
I want to move to new york to start my career in photography. I am in love with my boyfriend and talking about getting engaged. He is currently going to school in my home town of ohio and will be for the next couple years finishing up his degree. Should I put my life on hold for him? Or and advice?
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@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
18 Jan 07
I can't offer you any advice about a career decision, only about Flckr. com . If you haven't heard about it, It is a site about photos and photographers. I enjoy it very much and I recommend it because you can learn a lot more about photography. Take care Carlyshort.
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
Thanx and i will check it out.
• United States
19 Jan 07
Im not a big fan of Flickr, its a little more for the average photographer/consumer. I have checked it out though thanks for the advice. If you would like I have a website carlyshortphotography.com
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@jayperiod (870)
• United States
18 Jan 07
Freelance work is most likely how you will need to get into the business. Freelancers are needed everywhere. Have you done any freelance work for a local paper or magazine where you are? New York most likely has more photographers than your hometown has people. That being said, you will need to have a remarkable portfolio and resume to show possible employers in New York. Working freelance where you are might be a good way to begin working on your portfolio. Then, when you go to NY, you'll have something to show them. As for online, have you considered microstocks. You can make a little money while you perfect your craft. Plus, it puts photos in your portfolio.
• United States
19 Jan 07
I actually do lots of freelance work. I just got done interning with a famouse photographer in LA and im ready to start my career. Ya know, I don't want to mess around with hanging out in my little town when im fresh and experienced.
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• United States
19 Jan 07
Sounds like it. I wasn't sure of your experience.
@craftwave (1338)
• United States
20 Jan 07
Only you can decide what is more important to you. From reading your posts and responses to those who responded to your dicussion it looks like you are pretty well serious about your carreer choice and have already taken steps toward obtaining it. Are you absolutely sure that you have to be based in New York to work for the mags there or can trips be made there instead? Maybe living part time there and part time where your boyfriend is. A lot of traveling I know but it might work out.
• United States
20 Jan 07
You have a point there, im still learning how it all works, but that might be a possibility! Thanks
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• Malaysia
18 Jan 07
if you seriously with your relationship, then so be it. time is a matter which test your endurance, how far you believe in your partner. my advice, if you love somebody, whatever it takes, just don't let he go...
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
I hope this can help you. I am also into photography as a hobby although I do dream of pursuing it as a profession. My advice for you is to go to New York so you can give yourself a chance to grow professionally. I believe that if your boyfriend loves you, he will understand and support your dreams. You can always visit him and maintain communications. Many say long distance relationships don't work but I think it also depends on the willingness and eagerness of the couple to "keep the fire burning." Another option for you is to seek ways by which you can sell your photo works online so you can also stay in Ohio (if you think you really can't bear to part with your love). I wish you well. I know that's a difficult decision to make. Goodluck!
• United States
18 Jan 07
Thanks for your advice! That helps a lot. I also can't sell my stuff online and make a living, i want to work for magazines and I would have to be on call for freelance work in New York, but that is a good suggestion
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